talk me down please

Waves_and_Smiles

Aww, look at that little girl! She is beautiful! I hope you are feeling a bit less fuzzy today, Melly.

mellymoo74

Nope still fuzzy
Madam is playing with a ball of catnip.

They squabbled this morning
Came in through the bedroom window I didn't know they were there so due to advance starvation they had to fight

wannabe_sybil

Just passing through with a hug. If you are on facebook, have a look for Sir Thomas, Knight of the Kind Thoughts Circle. This is a sample of his excellent work.



At least, I hope it works.

Edit - darn it, failed. Look up Sir Thomas and does anyone know how to attach pics that don't have a url?

Darn, didn't.

mellymoo74

MIND today

OH was sleeping as expected and they were 30 mins early
It was to remove the service

They are now not, thanks in part to my telling them too, stating that I hadn't got OH up as this would be seen as a rejection.
Amazing what actually speaking to the manager achieved.
I was asked what is in place for me, told I look exhausted
Asked if I eat
Told I need to (DOH! if only I had thought of that,) it's not quite that simple

Meeting with help for OHS PIP appeal tribunal thing on Tuesday.

Cotton mouth, feeling odd, upset stomach woop

Oh Mr T is a little sod. He has been back a couple of times as he throws food around when he eats, we know it's him.
He's gone straight out tho so OH was panicked.
Mr T has given OH a love and eaten and gone out.

wannabe_sybil

Sending hugs.

Hope you feel that today was a step in the right direction. Just hang on a few days and hopefully the weird stuff will die down and you will be better placed.

Do you think you could get help as a carer? Others on here will know more than me, but respite has to a necessity at some point.

hugs x

mellymoo74

Need PIP to get any is the problem

It was suggested I speak to carers UK so that's tomorrow's job

I don't know of respite will work he'd need to know them

Something to think about.

I knew they were gonna try that. I got a couple of points across so

OH situation with MIL and upbringing he is not going to talk about it, the withdrawal of the last person he spoken to has left us with this, stop asking.

He doesn't do the phone, he frequently doesn't speak to me I am his wife, we have been together 15 years

Organising 3 different lots of councilling at once will freak him, it's too much all at once, leads to this.

Waves_and_Smiles

Well done, Melly! You have done so well especially as you are feeling shaky too! I am so pleased that OH has you to advocate for him.

mellymoo74

Her manager was lovely WaS
Admitted they were coming to withdraw the service, since speaking to me she has decided not to
Weekly well being call for now

Agree's we need to get a medication review.

Asked what support I get

Told me I look exhausted and asked about eating........

Backed off when I quoted BMIS at her and what I can get to before its critical

Waves_and_Smiles

That sounds really positive, it's about time something went your way! Hopefully they will stick to this without needing to be chased up. You have done really well today!

mellymoo74

Tuesday is a biggie
Meeting with p3reon who helps with PIP appeal gotta take paperwork with me.

I'm grinding my teeth with these bloody things and got baaasd stomach acid ickness.

Pickle had booted OH of his chair when I last looked lol