talk me down please

mellymoo74

Guess who doesn't mind a towel dry?
Got back at 3pm soaked and feeling verrrrrry sorry for ourselves allowed the minions to towel dry and hand feed dreamies before snoozing lol

wannabe_sybil

lol - he'll be happy with you - cuddles, fuss, play and dreamies.

Dreamies are crack for cats. They were just about the only thing that evil cat would eat at the end. He is so lucky with you.

mellymoo74

As I said to OH tomcat decided he was coming here before his mum had gone, he stayed to protect her as much as he could but he was always moving in here.

I am also certain MIL fibbed and Tomcat was cuddled of an evening he's too used to it and it's not like there is any choice.

I have grab marks on my arms from this mornings love (not scratching just gripped.my arm so he got the right kind of love) and had a lovely nose nip.

Just cuddling grinch (who now gives me my socks a d slippers.in the morning) and porky (who smears like a cat especially if I smell of tom)

mellymoo74

It was also am not.pm OHS back has gone completely because the fool went out in the rain lookin for tomcat (it's that the woke me up)
He's lying flat on the bed having been dosed with painkillers and had a hot water bottle put on his back. I should be gardening but grinch wants loves so rarely I always give when he asks

wannabe_sybil

I was going to say - are you going to be able to catch up on your rest after being disturbed but then double checked and saw pm.

Cats don't do sensible things like come in at 3pm. My subconscious was telling me something.

I think the grinch is also telling you something - stick to cuddles for a while.

hugs

mellymoo74

You were right WS front garden looks lovely but my arm is shaking
On couch with grinch and fatty

wannabe_sybil

Have marvellous cuddle and check with 111 about your arm - you need to take care of yourself. It may be weakness left over from the TIA or it may be nothing. I think keeping a trail of what is happening is a good idea.

hugs

mellymoo74

Did tea
Walked grinch and fatty
Went shop
Had a brief tomcat love
Lying back down with fan

mellymoo74

Bearing in mind that healthy minds waiting list is 4 months do we think the fact OH has an appointment within 6 weeks means they also feel that he's a suicide risk?

Not bad in himself at the moment physically bad tho as his back has gone completely

wannabe_sybil

It may be as simple as being higher up the list due to a recent bereavement. Most people who have just lost a mother are more vulnerable for one reason or another.

Fingers crossed, try not to worry, cuddle the furries. Hugs