talk me down please

Georgiegirl256

mellymoo74 wrote: »

Not cleaning would stress me out I am pants at sitting still (as you can see)

I agree with the not destressing Elsien Porky was in a foul mood last night which meant she kept launching herself at Laurs and getting a smack.

Though the cuddles do help, Tomcats cuddles are soothing, Porkys are more forceful

I'm the same Melly. If things need cleaned or tidied up, it would stress me out even more just to leave them, and I'm like you, I can't sit still for very long! I hate clutter and mess and feel calmer when it's sorted.

Just don't be over doing it though, you don't want to make yourself worse.

mellymoo74

So
Next door is already let, that is the fastest ever.

Tired
Had enough

mellymoo74

Have Shelter and MP involved, how do I get an advocate? I cant deal with the HA myself any longer too ill

wannabe_sybil

Found this http://www.getconnected.org.uk/get_help/feelings_and_mental_health/advocacy

And this which apparently does advocacy

http://www.migrainetrust.org/

And possibly

http://www.getconnected.org.uk/get_help/housing_and_homelessness/housing_rights?region=National

May be a start. Sending hugs

mellymoo74

Thanks have emailed the migraine trust.

Am absolutely wiped out.

mellymoo74

Guess who's been over to my MIL'S.
OH worried cos tom was gone for a couple of hours he was strolling home from across a busy road little sod!

meritaten

probably checking it out for his 'old' mates melly. or perhaps he wanted a trip down 'memory lane'? don't forget, he may be missing your MIL. as much as he loves you, he loved her too. or he may have a regular 'girlfriend'! anyones guess the real reason - that's why cats are a law unto themselves!
hope you are feeling better today hunny?

mellymoo74

I told OH he's just gone for a mooch and to see his mates over there. He was on his way back when I found him and we are currently having a drooling purring love so he's happy enough here.

Just tired Meri and a bit sick of it. Contacted the migraine trust as an additional advocate.

Just uploading a naughty cat pic

mellymoo74

Little sod

wannabe_sybil

He is such a handsome chap!

Intact toms can have very wide territories and prowling routes. He could wander for miles. He obviously knows to come home to you, though, and to the loves.

Psycho cat once went missing fourteen days before we were due to move house. He turned up 11 days later - three days before we were due to move. Some animals can cross continents. Psycho cat got lost three doors down. I think Mr T will always find his way home, though.