talk me down please

meritaten

it will help if Mr T can establish his 'safe territory' - as long as the JRs respect that.


aw melly - the pics are lovely! Mr T looks right at home! he must be a very 'adaptable' cat. and people obviously mean more to him than places.

mellymoo74

It was external with a battered tabby with scraggy ears lol.

Froo and tom saw each other again this morning and had a staring contest but no growling.

Plan is to convert front bedroom into toms room can keep them pretty separate then.

He has some of his furniture here and knows and loves us so I think that's made it easier for him luckily. It's why I am trying so hard to get them all settled.

He loves us and we love him.

mellymoo74

Favourite spot. He knows the car, seems to like having a stretch and a roll round there

meritaten

oh sorry - Mr T was establishing his position with neighbourhood cats! I misunderstood!
But staring contest with dogs and no growling is GOOD! cats can always win staring contests.

mellymoo74

OH used to believe that poor tom was picked on. Think he's disabused him of that notion (how anyone can think Mr notched ears is anything other than a brawler is beyond me lol)

I am in the living room on the couch with snoring JR'S next week we get the room sorted and go back to normal.

Told OH about the sulking when I brought t in, he said 'did he turn his back on you, he does that to me if I tell him no'
I think Mr T is settled

mellymoo74

What do you think?



Hello Both,


Thank you for meeting with me on Monday just to recap.


We clarified that the information regarding both OH and my health had been passed onto to xxxx on several occasions over the last few years.


We covered xxxx's allocation policy, and it was decided that once I am able to get the forms in for Occupation Health we will be referred to Independent Living.


We covered when the noise issues had been raised and agreed that it had been raised in excess of two years ago, we also spoke about why I had not raised any this year, partially because of being told it was in fact not anti social behaviour and nothing could be done and partially due to caring for my husband and Mother in Law whilst working.
We went through the issue with the breakdown in the relationship and agreed that it had happened following the contractors expressing the opinion that we were making a fuss about nothing, I indicated that it had gone too far for mediation.


I have promised to send you copies of both the audio files I have showing the noise level and how it can be clearly heard over the sound of the TV and a spinning washing machine, I will hopefully be well enough to transfer these for you over the weekend.


I also promised to send you some of the emails I have regarding this issue, again I will get these over to you over the weekend hopefully.


I would like to apologise for not being able to get the above and the completed forms over to you, however the hemiplegic attack I was having prior to and during our meeting has continued so I am minimising computer time to work related tasks and will be going to see my GP in the next few days for another referral to the TIA unit at Hospital.


I am completing the diary as requested, and will be able to get that over next week. I would like to again raise the possibility of a move to number XX. I understand that the assessment for the adaptations needs to take place however there are two strands to this issue and moving us to underneath a single man rather than a boisterous two year old would obviously remove the stress that is being suffered by both families whilst not altering XXXXXs housing stock.


I am awaiting a call back from the psychologist regarding the documentation around whether OH needs silence to complete his pain management programme.



I have a meeting with the solicitors through Shelter on Wednesday at 9am and will either inform you myself or they will be contacting you.


Hopefully this covers everything, as explained at the time, this attack of hemiplegia follows on from 4 the weekend before. 1 of which happened whilst I was stepping over a baby gate leading to cracked ribs and a damaged knee. I have to do whatever is necessary in order to try to stop this attack and head off any further attacks as we cant afford for me to end up back in hospital as an inpatient.



Please can we keep Jxxx xxxxxx office informed.


Thank you

Melissa

meritaten

I think that letter is good melly. covers everything I think.

mellymoo74

Thanks Meri

Not a dicky bird from them lol.
Shelter Wednesday so let's see what happens there

mellymoo74

As it's sunny today I am about to go out with Mr T. He needs a mooch

mellymoo74

So an hour out with Mr T came in when he started to get adventurous lol.
An hours play in shared garden with dogs my porkey princess has worn herself out so we are now lying on the couch.