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Wedding deposit lose

Hi can anyone help me ? I paid £1000 deposit on my Visa card for my wedding venue. We was supposed to pay £1280 , we could no longer afford to get married due to boiler breaking, school club going bust & taking 300 of our childcare money, tv breaking , work dying down basically no money . I phoned up today to cancel and the wedding venue has said we will lose our £1000 deposit and we owe them another £280 . I feel sick to the stomach with worry . The wedding was supposed to be on the 24th may we signed a contract please anyone got any advice ????
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  • shoe*diva79
    shoe*diva79 Posts: 1,356 Forumite
    Other then appealing to their better nature then not much you can do. A deposit is just that.. if you don't pay the rest of the deposit then they may take legal action to recover it. Ask if they will accept it in instalments?
  • tea_lover
    tea_lover Posts: 8,261 Forumite
    That's what a deposit is! Have you checked your contract to see what it says about cancellation?
  • Olliaura
    Olliaura Posts: 12 Forumite
    Surely there's something i can do £ 1280 that's so much money and the situation that I am in was not my fault ?
  • Olliaura
    Olliaura Posts: 12 Forumite
    Yeah it says the longer you leave it the more you have to pay, I feel sick to the stomach. Not only am I not getting married I am losing the will
  • maman
    maman Posts: 30,050 Forumite
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    While I might feel sympathetic to your situation, the venue is running a business. With just three weeks to go they are very unlikely to fill that slot so stand potentially to lose a lot more money than the deposit. That's their insurance to help compensate them for cancellations at very short notice such as yours.


    I think asking for time to pay is probably the best advice.
  • thorsoak
    thorsoak Posts: 7,166 Forumite
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    You must have a receipt ....as already asked - what does your contract/receipt say??
  • Olliaura
    Olliaura Posts: 12 Forumite
    Please someone send me some positivity ! There must be a light at the end of the tunnel ?
  • Seanymph
    Seanymph Posts: 2,882 Forumite
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    why not get married anyway?
  • Olliaura
    Olliaura Posts: 12 Forumite
    We didn't get a receipt, we paid it over the phone
  • thorsoak
    thorsoak Posts: 7,166 Forumite
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    olliaura wrote: »
    please someone send me some positivity ! There must be a light at the end of the tunnel ?

    what does the receipt that you received when you paid the deposit say//
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