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  • kazstevens
    kazstevens Posts: 315 Forumite
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    thanks poppycracker xxx A think, a trip to the local country park with my Daughter is in order .. some nice fresh air, feed the ducks and an ice cream might be just the thing I need today ... Pray for loads of shade for me, so as I don't overheat again! ;)
  • poppycracker
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    Lots of shade coming your way kaz..... or, I just thought, would taking a brolly help? May look silly but might help to keep you cool? Anyway, have a good day with the ducks :)

    huggles
    PC
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  • Tulip
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    :hello: Everyone,

    Hope you are all ok,I am fine today :) seeing my brother at my parents as he came home yesterday :) It is sunny here too :) I am going to have a lovely day,Kaz hope you have a lovely time at the park seeing the ducks with your daughter :) PC,hope you are well and having a lovely weekend :)

    Tiff: hope you are ok :)

    still hoping Ethel is ok and well

    Gilette:hope you are alright and not feeling as down :)

    to everyone else hope you have had a fab weekend :) btw I took all the blue smarties not Saz ;) so if anyone is to blame its me,so sorry Tiff,waits to see whats in store :)


    love and light,

    Katie xxx
  • kazstevens wrote: »
    Well another day and the suns shinning, but it isn’t making me feel any different. In fact the warm weather isn’t helping me keep cool .. I have been told some two years ago I am pre menopausal, what ever that means, and that I can’t have any sort of medication or help until the menopause is full blown? Could take 10 years the Female Dr told me! … So hot sweats galore for me!!! .. I can’t afford any sort of herbal remedies as I am a lone parent on Income support, so moneys tight, any spare cash I do ever have I spend on my daughter, clothing etc … I feel so so selfish and indulgent feeling like this .. I have three beautiful kids .. 2 grown up, and left home and one little girl still only 8 with me .. Also a little grandson with another grandchild on the way ... my life is slow and uncomplicated .. But all the same I can’t seem to function properly and have no drive to do anything apart from the housework and looking after my littleun. I can’t be bovered to even call or talk to the very few family & friends I have, the phone stays unplugged more than connected these days .. What’s that all about? … I am not sure whether to return to Dr’s and talk about going on some sort of medication again .. I am just totally in a haze at the mo .. thanks for Listening x


    Hi kaz , maybe you might like to treat yourself to something , a little bit of retail therapy or the like,do you have nights out,i remember how differcult it is to get a baby sitter you can trust(and afford) but you need your own space away from all the duties and responsibilities now and then.

    regards

    Andy
    don't get mad do yoga


  • hi,
    miro......its really good to hear from you as i missed you :D .....as for the blue smarties, chance would be a fine thing :p
    hi to our new guys xx
    gilette.....hope you are doing ok and winning loads if you are gambling :D

    hopefully have reached the bottom so am now on the way up again, and the humour will be back.:j

    andipandi.....good idea bout going with the flow.....although i find sometimes it makes me sink further into the depression by dwelling on it.

    another sunny day here,which is both good and bad.good cos it cheers me up when the sun comes out....but bad cos it makes me want a hol and cant afford one.aint life :confused: ???

    take it easy, guys.love ilgd xx
    People bring great joy into our lives..some by arriving, others by leaving.im trying to be one of the former, so please bear with :)

    LOVE ME, LOVE MY NEWFOUNDLAND.:A
  • slowlyfading
    slowlyfading Posts: 13,429 Forumite
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    Good afternoon everyone, just got in from work. Am shattered - was at work at the bakery til 5pm yesterday, then the restaurant 7pm - midnight and then at the hotel at half 7 this morning. meeting my dad for lunch in a bit and might go swimming later on, and then an early night for me i think! :) how is everyone else? (hugs) to all x
    Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.
    Personal Finance Blogger + YouTuber / In pursuit of FIRE
  • slowlyfading
    slowlyfading Posts: 13,429 Forumite
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    :hello: Sorry that I haven't posted for a while. I have read all the posts even though I haven't commented.

    A big welcomesj3.gif to all the new posters :) I hope you get lots of support.
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    Things haven't been too bad lately. I think the medication prevents me from getting so low. I haven't self-harmed or overdosed, so yeah, I'm pleased with myself.

    Work is keeping me occupied. It's very busy, there is just so much to do. It's quite rewarding though and I do like being able to help others.

    I'm still going to the gym twice a week. I really enjoy my workout.

    I hope you've all had a good day and enjoyed the lovely weather.

    xxx

    Hey, its nice to hear from you! Glad to see that you're feeling okay, and well done for not self harming or overdosing. (hugs) x x
    Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.
    Personal Finance Blogger + YouTuber / In pursuit of FIRE
  • slowlyfading
    slowlyfading Posts: 13,429 Forumite
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    hi all

    well, I'm back down in the dumps again. :confused: OH is being totally over the top, it's like he's bouncing off the wall and he just does my head in. I think he's drinking again although he says he isn't.

    My head is saying he's only trying to cheer me up, but all I want him to do is leave me alone!!!! Although woe betide if I say that, because then he gets in a bad mood and starts snipeing at me which makes me worse.

    Oh dear, this is all about me isn't it :rolleyes:

    Hi all the people that came here today, (((((all))))) hope you are feeling better for reading the thread, I did when I joined.

    :hello: poppycracker, how are you feeling today? (hugs) have you talked to your oh about drinking? sometimes being by yourself is just the thing you need, rather than to be sat with someone and be in a bad moood... you know? keep that chin up x
    Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.
    Personal Finance Blogger + YouTuber / In pursuit of FIRE
  • just got my third star......little things but very nice all the same.....
    sf...dont know where you get your energy.....more power to you.
    People bring great joy into our lives..some by arriving, others by leaving.im trying to be one of the former, so please bear with :)

    LOVE ME, LOVE MY NEWFOUNDLAND.:A
  • slowlyfading
    slowlyfading Posts: 13,429 Forumite
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    just got my third star......little things but very nice all the same.....
    sf...dont know where you get your energy.....more power to you.

    well done on your third star :) i dont know where i get my energy either, some days are easier that others. certainly having an early night today though! how are you this afternoon? :) x
    Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.
    Personal Finance Blogger + YouTuber / In pursuit of FIRE
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