Depression Support Thread

poppycracker

rose07 wrote: »

no, a mate of mine has just told me he thinking off ODing, i dont know what to do


thanks for bein here xx

cross posts...... ((((((hugs)))))))) to you rose. not much I can think of but you could give him the number of the Samaritans....... tho I think that just talking to him will help a lot.

poppycracker

rose07 wrote: »

of all places .......msn, im speaking to him now

thing is me and him are very close, i like him, and he loves someone else, and this week he seen that someone else kissin her bf, and now he has came to realise he doesnt have a chance, and wanted to end it all

its just hard coza how i feel bout him, and how did i not see this coming, blame myself

Dont blame yourself rose, as much as you like this person, you can't be in his mind and know what he's thinking all the time. The fact that you are there now talking to him will help enormously

rose07

poppycracker wrote: »

cross posts...... ((((((hugs)))))))) to you rose. not much I can think of but you could give him the number of the Samaritans....... tho I think that just talking to him will help a lot.

he is my best friends cousin, we met last summer when he came over, and have kept in touch

whats the samritains number?

im talking to him now, and trying to get to the root of things then least he has talked bout it

rose07

poppycracker wrote: »

Dont blame yourself rose, as much as you like this person, you can't be in his mind and know what he's thinking all the time. The fact that you are there now talking to him will help enormously

I think im a one for blaming myself

i should have been there more tho or something, maybe im !!!! friend

xx

poppycracker

rose07 wrote: »

he is my best friends cousin, we met last summer when he came over, and have kept in touch

whats the samritains number?

08457 90 90 90 you should get through to a local office....I think... but that's the national number.

im talking to him now, and trying to get to the root of things then least he has talked bout it

thats the best thing you can do for him rose, (((((hugs)))))) to you, you're a star!

the more he talks, the less he will feel alone and isolated.

poppycracker

rose07 wrote: »

I think im a one for blaming myself

i should have been there more tho or something, maybe im !!!! friend

xx

nooooo, you aren't! You're there talking to him aren't you? Bet the rest of his friends are out partying tonight, totally unaware that he is in so much pain.... or not caring.

geminilady

rose07 wrote: »

of all places .......msn, im speaking to him now

thing is me and him are very close, i like him, and he loves someone else, and this week he seen that someone else kissin her bf, and now he has came to realise he doesnt have a chance, and wanted to end it all

its just hard coza how i feel bout him, and how did i not see this coming, blame myself

Rose,Firstly do NOT blame yourself it is not your fault.As poppy says you could suggest the samaritans if you think talking to you is not enough, but if as you say him and you are close it will help him to talk to someone who cares.

rose07

poppycracker wrote: »

the more he talks, the less he will feel alone and isolated.

thanks have given him those numbers

think he just feels heartbroken and like he has nothing to live for, but we all know what that feel like, or at least i do

xx

rose07

poppycracker wrote: »

nooooo, you aren't! You're there talking to him aren't you? Bet the rest of his friends are out partying tonight, totally unaware that he is in so much pain.... or not caring.

i will always be here to talk to him tho im gettin sleepy been on the go for nearly 19 hours :eek::rotfl:

his other friends are mainly techi peeps and that, not people he would talk to bout these things

xx

rose07

geminilady wrote: »

Rose,Firstly do NOT blame yourself it is not your fault.As poppy says you could suggest the samaritans if you think talking to you is not enough, but if as you say him and you are close it will help him to talk to someone who cares.

i think he calming down a little now which is good, scares me soo much when people say things, it not the first time this has happened, but each time it does, i just go a bit argh