Depression Support Thread

Sazbo

Hiya Katie hun, glad you had a nice evening. Sorry guys, I gotta crash Sweet dreams everyone....

Love, Sazzy xxxxxxxxx

Sugar_Coated_Owl

Tiff, (((HUGS))) I am so sorry to hear about your Mum. Don't feel bad about crying or not being your normal self on here, everyone will understand. We're all thinking of you and your Mum. I hope that the antibiotics start to work soon. Please look after yourself Tiff (((HUGS))) Post whenever you can. We are all here for you xxx

Tulip

Sazbo wrote: »

Hiya Katie hun, glad you had a nice evening. Sorry guys, I gotta crash Sweet dreams everyone....

Love, Sazzy xxxxxxxxx

Night Saz


love and light,

Katie xxx

Tulip

:hello: Everyone,

Like Saz I have to crash now as well,Got a busy morning helping my church tomorrow then I have the afternoon free to do what I like

Night! Night!

chat tomorrow


love and light,

Katie xxx

Tulip

:hello: Everyone,

Morning! hope you are all ok I am fine,off to my church this morning to help out,then home this afternoon to vaccuum my flat as it needs doing

Have a nice day everyone


love and light,

Katie xxx

Tulip

:hello: everyone,

Well I am back,I worked hard at my church,I had Jumbo Sausage and Chips for lunch from a local chip shop

Just relaxing now before I vaccumm my flat


love and light,

Katie xxx

queensway_boy

Hope your all ok



..............((((( Tiff ))))


Grrrrrrrrr today i had news that someone has tried to use my debit card details:mad: luckily my banks financial crimes operations has done a good job and sorted it.I have no card/pin for a week or so now but thats better than what could have been.As usual it was abroad that it was attempted to be used.They usually get some stick but well done to my banks crime squad:T they spotted it straight away and reported it to police and everything:T

juno

We had chinese takeaway! And my very spoilt parakeet now has a snuggle blanket.

Miroslav

Tiff wrote: »

Hi guys!
Just want to wish everyone a good day and good luck for those with tests, appointments, interviews, treatment or meetings.:T :A I'll be thinking of you all.


I don't want to bring anyone down - heaven knows you all have enough to deal with! - but I wanted to let you know so that you didn't think I was ignoring you all or didn't care. That's why I didn't post it yesterday - and also I was trying to be practical and keeping busy.

Early yesterday morning, my mum (who lives in sheltered housing now), had to pull the emergency cord and have the paramedics in because she couldn't breathe. That's why I was so late signing in yesterday. She said she'd wait until the gp came on duty and have a home visit from her.

The dr said to my sister that the chest infection was still there. They have been treating her with antibiotics since January for this! Mum also has fluid in her lungs that can't be cured with her history, which means of course, that she's drowning. She's seen a gp over 8 times in 2 months, each one throwing antibiotics at her.

The freakin' gp said we'll try her on these mega antibiotics for 3 days and if they don't work, they'll admit her to have some other one intravenously. There's only so many drugs Mum can tolerate because of her heart and other illnesses. It's likely to go to pneumonia and the inevitable.
The gp was saying that basically all they can do is make mum comfortable. Even the oxygen isn't really helping now. It's not looking good for my mum.

I'm going back up to mum's today - in about 15 mins - and will try and get her admitted - to hell with 3 days! And miracles happen right? She can't get meals or drinks herself and she was crying this morning because she couldn't even open the curtains.

She feels all her dignity is gone and that it's all over and crying because she can't do things like opening the curtains, which is something we all take for granted. She's so tired.

And I'm in tears - I'm trying to be the fluffy Tiffster you all know and hate,:D but it feels as though my world is falling apart.

I'm sorry about that - enough self pity methinks.;)
Just want to say I'll post when I can and that I'll leave the keys to the smartie cupboard with sazzy until later. And I've done an inventory sazzy!:D

Tiffy hugs and love for everyone. Back when I can. Thinking of you all.
Much Love,
Tiffxxx

I hope things improve and we will al be thinking of you. I'm not good at Tiff like speeches, so won't even attempt one, but we all look forward to your return, hopefully with some positive news.

Miroslav

ilovegreatdanes wrote: »

miro......please keep in touch.am one of the newbies and am really glad tiff brought us up to speed.most woman dont go for money/looks thing, personally a gsoh does it every time for me and think most women would agree.i believe that fete always sends the right person when you need them and maybe the times not here yet.maybe you still have "stuff" to work throu and if you found someone now, they wouldnt be who you should be with and bring you more baggage to sort,...so i think that as soon as you are concentrating on other things, miss right will pop into your life when you are least expecting her.anyway thats my op, fwiw,you sound like a great guy to me and i was alittle sad i was married, tbh,(god that last bit made me sound like a stalker, soz)...its my silver aniversary this year and hes got no money, etc so just shows you its personality that outlives looks.

:wave:

Well, the women I have met/been involved with since my dar partner and daughter passed have all been :mad: I have high standards, because loved ones dearly departed would want me to be happy, but not with just anyone who'll take me for a ride, and I owe them that.

I just hope as I get older, it will get easier as there is less reliance on material/shallow things. I mean, i'm not the worst looking bloke around and I have attracted women, just for the wrong reasons. Everyone says i'm really nice, but maybe i'm too nice, although I don't go out looking for love Lack of self confidence doesn't help. Yes I am tall, well built etc, but I want people to want me for me, not because i'm tall etc :rolleyes: I am patient, I'd like to get to know someone over time, but people are too quick these days.

Is Silver 25 years? Good going if it is!

:wave: