Depression Support Thread

hayley11

shazrobo wrote: »

hi hayley, i'm feeling much better in myself, even tho i'm really ill with the flu. think splitting up from my bf on thurs has done me good once i got over the initial shock. he still ringing me, and begging me to go back to him, but that depends if he can change the way he treats me, instead of putting me down all the time, just because i cannot work right now.
did you save me one of those choccies that you were throwing?:rolleyes:
big hugs
shaz x

Hehe yeah you'll have it in the post in the next 3 - 5 working days shaz :rotfl:We've got half a box left of the ones we don't like so we had to make good use of them somehow :rotfl:I've put my foot my down now though, I can see me losing an eye or something :eek:

I don't know your boyfriend but in my experience (I don't have that much so please feel free to ignore me ) If a man is capable of treating you that way at all, he's not capable of change, it's just the way he is. My ex was awful with me, really agressive when he was drunk and just made me feel so bad about myself all the time, I stayed with him for three years and he didn't change. I know how hard it is, but it does get easier, you just have to be strong, stand your ground and don't take anything he says to heart because he doesn't know what he's talking about.

Hope your flu clears up soon, take it easy (well as easy as you can with two children) and make sure you drink plenty. Big hugs hun, look after yourself xx

hayley11

rose07 wrote: »

omg i have a bad hangover

my body feels like its been in a fight, maybe it has. :rotfl:, but the left side of my face feels like someone has punched me, looks like it too :rotfl:soo numb, my jaw is sore, my necks sore.... :rotfl:

Now i remember why i dont go out often :rolleyes:,
it was such a mad night from what i can remember , started slow, like all nights, then picked up bout 10, which was when i and everyone i was with (there were 8 of us) was !!!!!! :rotfl:. i seen some people i havent seen since college, and managed to get myself a new project, workin on a youth and community project, (this was before the drunkeness). soo i catch up with everyone, which was good.
but it was a bizare night, basically the band that were playin were a tribute band to a band in the 70s, hawk somethin i think, anyway the music was mad, totally mad, the music plays all kinda space oddysey type stuff, and then the guy comes on the mic, and says, wooo were going back in time, wooo, were going to feel the vibe , wooo we will have an orgasmic:eek: time, me and someone i was with, laughed and said, well if we dont have an orgasm then we want our muney back:rotfl:

there was a small bit of dance floor infront of the band, some people got up dancin, and bout 1030pm i got up with my mate and danced away, but it wasnt my usual dancing ohh no, it was 70s dancin:rotfl:, and coza the music, and all the swirls on the ceilin and the rainbow in the walls, and the disco lights, you felt way spaced out, soo relaxed. lol. i drank wayy too much tho, (i know Tiff) but the drinks were soo cheap :rolleyes:, i musta got 4 hours sleep at the most last night, was up till 6 soo im tierd lol

my drivin lesson was fun today, and im loosin my voice, so had to whisper in drivin lesson. :rotfl:i went into work, bought my gran loads of things for her christmas, soo now i have everyones pressie part from my brothers, get in :D

so thats my last 24 hours :rotfl:

hope we are all havin a ok weekend

i might go lie down

poppy, just seen your post, dont loose hope hun, i will reply tomorrow when i can give it the attention it needs. keep talkin and going , pm me if ya needxxxxxxxxx

much love and huggles

xxxxxxx

Hi Rose

Sounds like you had a great night, shame about the hangover eh? I keep saying they should invent something that allows us to go out, get absolutely wasted and not have a hangover in the morning, but nobody ever listens to me :rotfl:

Hope you feel better soon x

hayley11

fantastico wrote: »

Time for my bed, i can hear it calling me.

Goodnight to all and godbless to all

Love H

Night H, sweet dreams hun xx

ElegantlyWasted

shazrobo wrote: »

hi everyone, having a lazy day cos i got flu.
hope you feel better soon juno,.
have fun at your friends, katie,.
hayley,big hugs, i know the shops are so stressful, i've done most of mine online this year too, same as lisa,
how are you today lisa?
big hugs to all those that need one
shaz x

Hi Shaz

Aww, sorry to hear you've got the flu hun. Big hugs, hope you feel better soon.
I'm not doing too bad today, got a bit of an earache

Lisa x

ElegantlyWasted

poppycracker wrote: »

evening all

(((((((hugs))))))) to everyone who is having a bad day or just feels like a hug.

I'm having a bad week. I'm seriously thinking of jacking the whole thing in, my job, my relationship, everything. The problem is that if I do, I've got nothing but a whole lot of debt and I don't think I'm strong enough to do it.

I've lost my bolthole at my mum's house. My dad says I'm always welcome with him and my nan, but its in London, at the other end of the country. And I should be able to stand on my own two feet at my age! I'm living in a tied flat so I would need to find a new job AND a place to stay at the same time.

Anyway, I'll just have to take a deep breath and carry on until at least after the New Year.

only about 23 days til christmas! hope everyone has a better day than me tomorrow (((((hugs))))) to all

PC

Hi PC

Sorry to hear things aren't going well at the minute. I understand about just wanting to give up, but it's not a much better place when you're not doing those things.

*hugs* Hope things look up for you soon.

Lisa x

ElegantlyWasted

Hi Rose

Sounds like a good night! Apart from the hangover, anyway
Hope you're feeling better now hun.

Lisa x

Tulip

:hello: Everyone,

Well its time for me to go now,Just been finding yet more advent competitions got them all in a folder in favs so going to work on them tomorrow


chat tomorrow


Night! Night!


love and light,

Katie xxx

juno

I feel awful. I've got really bad tummy/side/back pains, I keep throwing up, I feel dizzy, and I don't know what to do. And I phoned my daddy and cried

Tiff_2

Hi guys!:hello:
Hangovers, (), and sniffles and tummy upsets aside, I hope everyone is well this morning.
Well, me and the smarties were here - it's not my fault you're all tucked up in bed. Here I am posting my paws off and not a bag of catnip in sight!

And I missed Caturday!!!




That's it - I'm off!
Think I'll do a full smartie inventory .....
.....erm - I could be gone for several days!

I think I'll reply to posts after the smartie inventory - that'll make some interesting reading!
Hoping everyone has a wonderful Bun-day.
Thinking of you all.
Much Love,
Tiff xxx

poppycracker

juno wrote: »

I feel awful. I've got really bad tummy/side/back pains, I keep throwing up, I feel dizzy, and I don't know what to do. And I phoned my daddy and cried

(((((hugs))))) to you juno, sorry you're feeling so yucky. Hope today is a bit better for you

PC