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  • BigMummaF
    BigMummaF Posts: 4,281 Forumite
    Morning folks, hope the East Anglia branch are keeping dry._pale_ I've just seen the flood
    predictions on the news.......

    Well, spent a small fortune in a certain leading supermarket yesterday:shocked: , tho what on I'm not sure----it's not like I bought steaks for the p-u-p or anything! And that was after visiting a 'farm shop' for the veg!!Not too sure if I'll go to the veggie place again..it's a bit of a trek, but I'll taste the stuff first before making any final decisions. We do like our veg:o

    Your boots look good Tulip, but not for me--they wouldn't go round my tree stumps:rotfl: Same goes for the slippers.......

    Why do your huggies look so sad QWB? I]ahem...best Ali G impression[/I Is it cuz they is bloo? :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:
    S'pose I'd better go.......people to do........things to see.......
    Hope you have a giggle sometime today, & Peaceful Minds folks. BMFx
    Full time Carer for Mum; harassed mother of three;
    loving & loved by two 4-legged babies.

  • BigMummaF
    BigMummaF Posts: 4,281 Forumite
    Sorry Dawny, I was writing my post as you sent yours!

    I'm nowhere near as informed as the Tiffster, but I did wonder if you could get some help from MIND like John has? Perhaps they may have more info on your legal position work-wise, because although ACAS are very good at what they do, maybe the person you spoke to doesn't know all the rules surrounding long term sickness? Just a thought:o

    As for your dad, you will have to tell him that you are doing everything you can to get back to work, but just at the moment he is not helping you by reminding you of your financial situation. Would he read throught any leaflets you've been given about depression, or go with you to your GP so he can hear it from a medical source?

    These are only my suggestions, but I hope I've given a different perspective to consider. Best Wishes Dawny...BMFx
    Full time Carer for Mum; harassed mother of three;
    loving & loved by two 4-legged babies.

  • Tiff_2
    Tiff_2 Posts: 3,046 Forumite
    Hi guys!:hello:
    Well peeps, we made it to Friday!gen014.gif
    I hope everyone on the east coast is safe and sound and that the storm surge won't be as bad as expected.sad029.gif Thinking of you all. grouphug.gif

    Some Tiffbits before I forget...

    sazzy - 'Sazzy Come Home!sad035.gif Oh - right - that was lassie wasn't it?doh.gifshy2.gif
    I know you're really busy with work, but don't worry hun - it's Fry-up-day!biggrin.gif Hoping you're well angel.hug.gif

    rose - get well soon rosie! rose.gif I hope it won't be long before you're feeling better hun. Don't push yourself too much either - get some rest angel.hug.gif

    cb2 - what are you up to young lady? Forgive my late responses hun.sad.gif All will be as clear as mud later on!huh.gifhug.gif

    ethel - another partner in crime who's gone AWOL. cry.gif Don't worry guys, I've started off the milk carton appeals. missing.gif Hoping you're well ethel hun.hug.gif

    gilly - I'm wondering what's going on in badger country? Hope you're a hale and hearty brock, hunnie.badger.gif Take care gilly. hug.gif

    bmf - how goes it with the knees hun?!unsure.gif Are you keeping the BBC updated?wink2.gif Thanks for the pm angel - not forgotten.hug.gif


    qb - you must be exhausted with all that hugging hun!yes.gif Look after yourself angel.hug.gif

    mac - haven't heard from you in a while sweetie.sad.gif I hope all is well mac? Thinking of you hun.hug.gif

    andi - how's you angel? hoping all is well with you and yours andi.thumb.gif Drop by and say hello when you can.hug.gif


    Sorry there are so many names who deserve the shout out and are not yet listed - ol' Tiffy's all over the place today.panic.gif So business as usual then for the Tiffster!lol.gif But I am keeping you all in my thoughts guys.grouphug.gif
    Got a big day planned for today - just hoping I can pull it off.scared007.gif Will tell you later on, but please cross everything for me so that it's as positive an experience as it should be.gen113.gif

    I think I've got a smiley addiction.scared.gifbiggrin.gif
    Back later peeps.
    Have a good Friday everyone and stay safe.hug.gif
    Much Love,
    Tiff xxx
    "If you realized how powerful your thoughts are, you would never think a negative thought." ~ by Peace Pilgrim.
    ***
    'You just got Tiffed!' ;)
    ***
  • Tulip
    Tulip Posts: 29,324 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    :hello: Everyone,

    I have got pottery today so up early enough to get my bus over there :) having lunch out today as well which will be nice :) I have the start of a cold I think,the new slippers I got yesterday were nice and warm :) Listened to my Westlife dvd today to get me in a good mood for the day :) Having a nice hot drink of Ribena before I go out to help my cold :)

    Have a lovely day everyone :)


    love and light,

    Katie xxx
  • just done test got 59 but then new how I felt
    If you like what I wrote
    please click the thankyou box :T
  • BigMummaF
    BigMummaF Posts: 4,281 Forumite
    I'm getting a little concerned about that blasted 'test'----it's OK for a guideline but I'm worried people will think themselves worse than they are.:o
    For instance, I dare not tell you what my score was, or you shall definately send round the men in white coats with the key to the soft room:eek: But I'm not letting it bother me cuz I know I'm a "little":shocked: below optimum happy level, & I'm working on climbing back up to common hysteria!

    Take the test by all means, but pppplllleeeeeeezzzze remember that it can only tell you black & white, when we all know that this illness is umpteen shades of grey.

    This is only MY opinion of course, but at least be sensible about your "results".:o

    Preach over.......thanks.
    Full time Carer for Mum; harassed mother of three;
    loving & loved by two 4-legged babies.

  • hi all
    feeling a bit rough this a.m think i have cold breaking, my son has had it for the last week bless him, but strangely enough feel alot better (mentally speaking) than i did yesterday.
    got a busy day on ebay today must get listing to get a bit of cash in for xmas, going through a "i cant be bothered" stage with ebay at the minute, but must snap out of it. generally comes with a low mood/black cloud patch when i cant be bothered with anything and just want to slump in front of the TV.
    but hopefully today is a new day and im feeling a bit brighter
    i hope everybody has a good day today in the sunshine
    chelly
  • no i havent been to anger management
  • Hi, havent much to say today.

    Take care everyone and enjoy the day.

    Lots of love and hugs

    H xxx
  • smallpackages
    smallpackages Posts: 10,024 Forumite
    :o hi to all.
    i had an ok day yesterday my son was 16 so he stayed off school and took me to lunch. he is a star. at night though i started to get that empty lonely feeling. its always worse when my oh is late shift and he comes in too tired for a chat or hug. it comes on suddenly for no apparent reason this feeling of being left out and not part of anything, feel lonely and uncared for even though i know i am. times like this i get v unsettled and usually spend too much on nice food an glossy mags, so today me an ma boy are watchin old eighties movies in out housecoats and catchin up on our reading. just have to resist the urge to overeat which is another of my problems when low. anyway hope all are well
    :rotfl:"that grady! won't sit next to a black child in church! but eats eggs, shoot right out a chickens !!!!!!" from fried green tomatoes:rotfl:
    :smileyheaMSE is where my friends live :smileyhea
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