Depression Support Thread

ilovegreatdanes

hi,
gillette and tulip.....really good to hear from you.
gillette....i rem when i had my kitchen done, took a week and had to wash up in the bathroom!!!tripped over the skirting board thingys(technical term, that you know:rotfl: )and ended up with a big gash on my shin!!happy days:D
tulip.....sorry you been ill.i do miss your posts and hope you are back, better than ever.....or well on the mend:A take care.
hope milo and rbk are doing ok.
keep posting, everyone and take care,
love julie xx

Rain_is_Insane

BAH! Just realised that my rent was due this weekend. Went to the bank and i only have £120 in there as against the £560 i have to find. If it wasn't so desperate i'd laugh. In fact i AM laughing right now. It's hysterical laughter though so i don't suppose it counts. It could only happen to me. I was having such a good day too !!!!

rose07

Tiff wrote: »

Hi guys!:hello:



:rolleyes: :rotfl:
I hope we all made it through the weekend safe and sound?
To everyone with appts, counselling, tests, meetings, treatment or for anyone who's feeling a bit low...

rose - good luck with the dentist hun!:T :A I hope the problem gets taken care of today rosie and you get some relief from the pain.

Well, I put my foot in it didn't I?:rolleyes:
I don't know what possessed me yesterday to promise to post a Tiff Chronicle within 24 hours.:eek: I'd much rather be replying to the posts instead, but sazzy's got this !:eek: But that's another story! :rotfl:
Still, you can always use a Tiffy Tale (NO BMF - NOT TAIL!!!:eek: ) to shore up any leaning furniture.;)

Thinking of you all and wishing you well. Have a mellow Monday guys.
Much Love,
Tiff xxx

thanks Tiff

well i seen a locum dentist today, (my one is away), all she did was cover it over, think its helped but im still feelin pain, so not much better, i have to have root canal, and one of my wisdom tooth out, and another tooth somewhere, so now i have a sore mouth, a cold, tho possibly te flu, as my bones are sore, i have headache, sore throat etc.....feelin like im a walking disaster lol , and have work tomorrow and the area manager is coming over so everything has to be ship shape .

god i feelinn ruff

soooo Tiffy hun.....wheres that chronicle eh? know ya busy so will let ya off...but have it on my desk by the end of the week eh? :rotfl:

much love to you and everyone here

soz not got time atm to catch up with you all

but thinking of ya alll

and many huggles and kisses







xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Tulip

Sazbo wrote: »

Morning all :wave: Katie you take care hun ok? Get some rest.

Much love to everyone,
Sazzy xxxx

:hello: Sazzy,

I will take care thanks for caring I feel so rotten and so tired,I am on the mend though so at least that is good and I am eating well

Going off now to have a nice sleep

*hugs* to everyone

Night! Night!

lots of love,

Katie xxx

BigMummaF

Yay Tulip! Hope it's not my fault you're poorly, coz it sounds like the bug I've had--sorry if I've passed it on:o

So how is everyone else this evening? The Birthday Boy has once more gone down to the local hosetlry, but has taken his car so as to only have soft drinks. Quite a landmark occasion earlier, a me muvva & the ex spent several HOURS in the same room:eek: Alright...they didn't really speak to each other, but they both stayed for tea......
Mum blames ex for causing my dad's health to go down hill shortly after the break-up of my marriage, & cannot ever forgive a man for walking out on the children. Over the years I have spoken to both Mum & the ex, telling them that it is not fair to put the children in the position of choosing to spend special times with either gran or dad, when they would like them both to be there. Looks like it may have finally got through!

Well early night for me too I think...
Peaceful Minds folks. BMFx

BigMummaF

C'mon Sleepy Heads! Some of yooze got early starts? I used to threaten my lot with the "drippy drippy flannel" if they refused to move:rotfl: :rotfl: Only had to let a damp flannel drip a couple of times & now they move quicker than one of Tiffy's cod liver oil capsules!!! Best bit is when they're not quite awake, & all they see is a vision of loveliness [moi:o ] standing over them with a bone dry flannel, giving an Oscar winning performance of having a wringing wet flannel in one's mitts!!!!:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

Don't forget your meds; drink plenty of water [apparently sparkling water helps aeriate the blood around the brain--adds whole new meaning to "bubblehead" methinks?]but most of all BE GOOD TO YOURSELVES.
Hope you have a good one.
Peaceful Minds folks. BMFx

poppyjay

good morning everyone hhope everyones feeling well the sun shineing here it just cheers the whole place up.
I just want to say thank you to everyone that helped me get to see girls aloud very nearly chickened out but it has made a real differance to my life i no that may seem over the top but to leave the house in the first place was very hard.
Things are going really well with my oh he took day off work yesterday(he never takes days off) and he is very pride of what i did he gave me the monney to buy myself three ducks which i have been after for months but had to go myself and get them and he stopped a home and built a pond spent all day outside watching them there great .
Just wanted to ask question about meds im on i take 60mg of cymbalta a day and they are great they really seem to work but make me very tried has anyone else found that im at doc next week so will speck to him but im sleeping alot
thank you everyone have a great day
my plan of action if anyone wants to join is to try and do one thing no matter how small to help yourself /illness if you cant manage it it does not matter but you have to try and do it
mine today is to go to post office at its busiest time and stand in the line and wait(not run off ) wish me luck

BigMummaF

:T Poppy! Way to go Gurl......... Must admit when you said ducks, Ithoughtyou meant ornaments or those like Hilda Ogden had on her 'muriel' in Corrie!:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: For the wee young things among us, Hilda & her hubby Stan were the Vera & Jack, & Hilda was very proud of her three flying ducks hung on the skyline of a huge wall sized poster of a lakeside view--her muriel/mural:rotfl: :rotfl:

I like your suggestion Poppy, & think that today I shall make a real effort to take pup for a walk....me & exercise is not a good combination! What will everyone else attempt today?

Peaceful Minds folks. BMFx

feelingdown

feelingdown wrote: »

Im feeling much better today. Iam going to my doctor on Monday and chatting with my oh on sunday. As you said its my problem i have no friends and i have decided its time to change that. I lost ll my friens when i had my son but now i can have friends who also have children. My new life starts today. . I will let you know how things go.

Hi everyone. Well went to the docs yesterday and she has put me back on my tablets. My oh came home on saturday after an 18hour drinking spree and 1 hour sleep. No sympathy from me its all is own doing. Only thing is he text me this morning to tell me he wants to go to amsterdam for his brothers birthday next month. Happens to be the weekend before we are due to go to london. I really dont want him to go, i dont wnt to be left on my own again but more than that i make myself feel so sick through worrying about what he is upto when he is away.. We dont exactly hav a lot of money either so i dont see how he can afford to go to amsterdam and london the next weekend. I have noone to talk to about it and when i talk to him it just ends up in arguments.

Oh also forgot to say that aas soon as he got up on saturday i hd to go work, which he knew, but he told me as i was on my way out the door that he wants to move away to his mums. My little boy has just started school and i have only started working recently. We stay in a house for £20 week rent off my family and there is no way we could afford more. After telling him this he has ageed we stay here but im starting to think this is just not going to work anymore.

I dont know what to do or who to talk to. I have tried so hard since he got back. I have dressed up everynight for him despite feeling so distant from him and i keep telling him that i dont mind what he does just to stop him leaving me and moving away.

BigMummaF

Tiff...you are one helluva puss! I can't begin to imagine how you found the strength to post this info, but I wanted you to know that I don't care what you tell me as long as it helps YOU. I'm not trying to be flippant, but to say that it's you who is important & not the whys....does that make sense?

Just make sure you are comfortable with sharing all of this.....don't want you to have any regrets OK? And I truly hope with all my soul, that this will bring you healing as you move forward with a lighter heart.

For you Tiff, I wish you a Peaceful Mind. your pal [I hope] Cx