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Is this guy playing mind games?
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He may have more than one of you on the go.0
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Why do people lead 'virtual' lives?
There's a whole world out there with people milling around and ready for a chat... why live life behind a screen or a phone?:hello:0 -
Because real life sometimes sucks bricks and we don't want to engage with it.Tiddlywinks wrote: »Why do people lead 'virtual' lives?
There's a whole world out there with people milling around and ready for a chat... why live life behind a screen or a phone?
(Disclaimer: I'm male.)0 -
The guy is not playing mind games. I think he is being above board and making it very clear, as to the level and type of contact he wants to have with you. Maybe you are not really his type but he doesn't know how to tell you this. It would appear you want far more from someone you interact with than he is willing or able to give. So just put this down to experience and move on.The best day of your life is the one on which you decide your life is your own, no apologies or excuses. No one to lean on, rely on or blame. The gift is yours - it is an amazing journey - and you alone are responsible for the quality of it. This is the day your life really begins.0
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If that's the case why does he message her first?The guy is not playing mind games. I think he is being above board and making it very clear, as to the level and type of contact he wants to have with you. Maybe you are not really his type but he doesn't know how to tell you this. It would appear you want far more from someone you interact with than he is willing or able to give. So just put this down to experience and move on.This is a system account and does not represent a real person. To contact the Forum Team email forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com0 -
Yep, men are a bit crap when it comes to texting. :rotfl:
As someone said though, maybe TALK and don't text???
I don't agree with Marisco above-post 25 ^^ at ALL (Sorry hun.)Proud to have lost over 3 stone (45 pounds,) in the past year! :j Now a size 14!
You're not singing anymore........ You're not singing any-more!0 -
specialkiss wrote: »We have briefly spoken a few times and he is talkative, not chatty chatty but there is no awkward silence that you get when your talking to someone who is shy or quiet.
Probably means his wife was doing the shopping on that day.I could dream to wide extremes, I could do or die: I could yawn and be withdrawn and watch the world go by.Yup you are officially Rock n Roll0 -
You would only get a one word text of me..
I detest texting with a vengeance and think it is so impersonal.
.And if i am honest i find it rude..If you have anything important to say to me..say it..It is nice to see the value of your house going up'' Why ?
Unless you are planning to sell up and not live anywhere, I can;t see the advantage.
If you are planning to upsize the new house will cost more.
If you are planning to downsize your new house will cost more than it should
If you are trying to buy your first house its almost impossible.0 -
How old are you both??"Men are generally more careful of the breed(ing) of their horses and dogs than of their children" - William Penn 1644-1718
We live in a time where intelligent people are being silenced so that stupid people won't be offended.0 -
specialkiss wrote: »Yeah I have heard that many times, but wouldn't he delete my number if he wasn't interested at all. Why keep my number and still be communicating with me? Men are confusing. If I wasn't interested in someone I would delete their number and move on. Not keep them in my phone book and start conversations with them.
Men are totally confusing - I feel your pain!!
Doesn't seem though that there is much point to this - what are you getting out of it? If he doesn't want to meet what is the point??0
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