so tempted

victory

10 years ago:eek: even thinking about doing it, wine or no wine, even as a fleeting idea makes it a mean, unnecessarily interfering thing to do.

CH27

melymay wrote: »

Sarcasm has left the building !
He's an Ex from years ago that is together with a friend from a different 'Arena' . . . I trained him in cards, gift giving, general lovelyness . . I'm proud of what he learned and his education in loving women . . MY original post was 'I taught him well'

This attitude could well be why you are single.

FBaby

Who left whom? It comes across as if you hold a sense of property over him. Did you really train him? Is there some jealousy there that you wish he had done this with you naturally. Personally 1 month or 10 years you are entitled to feel whatever is there bug never ever let it show it does show you in a good way and will do you no favours, better to stay friends with both or move on and delete them from your life.

owen_money

Have a couple of bottles of wine then tell her the reason he is so good in bed is cos you taught him everything he knows. Shes bound to have a chuckle, what could go wrong?

justme111

Haha op I can relate to that bittersweet feeling , hope you chuckled to yourself and enjoyed your wine.
Hope you don't get upset by criticising people , some take it too seriously, may be sense of humour and good mood generally interfered by Valentine's. :j

ruby-roo_2

justme111 wrote: »

Haha op I can relate to that bittersweet feeling , hope you chuckled to yourself and enjoyed your wine.
Hope you don't get upset by criticising people , some take it too seriously, may be sense of humour and good mood generally interfered by Valentine's. :j

Or maybe other posters on here have a level of common sense that you severely lack. Saying 'there, there I can relate, have a good chuckle' when someone was set to make a stupid move is neither helpful nor constructive.

Hermia

Voyager2002 wrote: »

I don't think this sounds bitter or anything, although I agree with other posters that it would be better not to post this. You simply seem to be observing that people change, and that you may well have played a part in his personal development.

It was 10 years ago though so a later girlfriend may have played a much bigger part! A colleague did once post a message on Facebook saying she had 'made' an ex into the man he is today. Cringefest!

mrcow

Hermia wrote: »

It was 10 years ago though so a later girlfriend may have played a much bigger part! A colleague did once post a message on Facebook saying she had 'made' an ex into the man he is today. Cringefest!

I agree.

After ten years, he could have had a lot more and a lot better than the OP.

I can't even remember the names of some of my ex partners. If any posted something like that on a Facebook page, it would be the saddest (sad as in pathetic) thing I'd read in a fair while!

NVRAM

OP clarified this in the OP ...

melymay wrote: »

him well' but think that's the bitter single b*tch

You taught/trainer him?
Woman please lol

Free_Spirit_31

This would never happen on Twitter! LOL