We’d like to remind Forumites to please avoid political debate on the Forum.

This is to keep it a safe and useful space for MoneySaving discussions. Threads that are – or become – political in nature may be removed in line with the Forum’s rules. Thank you for your understanding.

📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!
The Forum now has a brand new text editor, adding a bunch of handy features to use when creating posts. Read more in our how-to guide

Breathing problems in cats

24

Comments

  • I am so very, very sorry, Blindsided.
  • I'm so sorry to hear that :( sometimes these things just happen. I will reiterate that it does get easier. I'm sure he knew he was loved. Thinking of you and your daughter.
  • Blindsided_2
    Blindsided_2 Posts: 187 Forumite
    edited 10 February 2014 at 7:39PM
    I just can't quite get my head round it, I feel terribly guilty for not noticing he was ill. And I can't begin to imagine life without him.

    I hope this gets easier, I know people say they are only cats, but to me he was so much more
  • As silly as this now sounds, and I didn't think to ask, what do I do. Obviously my little man is still at the vet, do I take his body, do they cremate him for me. I have no idea. I didn't think to ask tbh.
  • Tiglath
    Tiglath Posts: 3,816 Forumite
    Tenth Anniversary 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker Debt-free and Proud!
    I'm so sorry :( Vets can usually arrange to cremate at a cost, or you can take the body for burial. We bury all of ours in the back garden.
    "Save £12k in 2019" #120 - £100,699.57/£100,000
  • ~Chameleon~
    ~Chameleon~ Posts: 11,956 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    I'm so, so sorry to learn of your bad news. As Tiglath says, the vet can arrange a cremation for you if you don't want to bury him at home. There are some lovely decorative pet urns available these days in which to store his ashes. I bought mine online so the crematorium returned my cat's ashes in a plain cardboard box which helped to keep the cost down.

    It will get easier in time but you'll never forget him :A
    “You can please some of the people some of the time, all of the people some of the time, some of the people all of the time, but you can never please all of the people all of the time.”
  • nicter
    nicter Posts: 308 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 100 Posts Photogenic Name Dropper
    So sorry to hear this, sending you hugs x Run free on rainbow bridge little one x
  • joansgirl
    joansgirl Posts: 17,899 Forumite
    Tenth Anniversary 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    So sorry Blindsided. Cats are very stoic and sometimes it does take a long time to notice that they're ill. And as for him being "just a cat", no he wasn't, he was a member of your family, one of your babies. I know you feel awful but it will get better. My thoughts are with you.
    floraison.gif
    Some people only exist as examples of what to avoid...
    .
  • meritaten
    meritaten Posts: 24,158 Forumite
    I am so sorry. this wont mean much right now but, at least he didn't suffer for long. 9 is no age for a cat, but, humans die before their allotted 'four score and ten' too. Take comfort in that he was a well loved cat and lived a good life with you. my condolences to you and your family.
  • geri1965_2
    geri1965_2 Posts: 8,736 Forumite
    So sorry your loss :(

    RIP little one.
This discussion has been closed.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 353.7K Banking & Borrowing
  • 254.2K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 455.1K Spending & Discounts
  • 246.7K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 603.2K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 178.2K Life & Family
  • 260.8K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.7K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.