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The Trials & Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

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  • pinkteapot
    pinkteapot Posts: 8,044 Forumite
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    Oh WW! Cubicle hugs. :( Do you have a buddy at work you can talk to?

    Our work toilets have the phone number of the bullying and harrassment team in them! Sadly no helplines for other toilet-tears.
  • tea_lover
    tea_lover Posts: 8,261 Forumite
    pinkteapot wrote: »
    Our work toilets have the phone number of the bullying and harrassment team in them!

    I can't decide if that's good or bad!

    Big, big hugs WW. Can you get out for a bit of fresh air at all, or even just 5 mins sitting in the car? Really hope you're feeling better soon.
  • Part_Mouse
    Part_Mouse Posts: 5,527 Forumite
    ww sorry to hear your struggling, i really hope your feeling better soon.

    Afm i finally have news, ive got funding for IUI fs called and wanted to know if I had enough menopur to start tommorow. I didn't know and couldnt check as I was out so asked her to call back, I can't get hold of her so I guess im not starting tommorow after all.
  • good_vibes
    good_vibes Posts: 546 Forumite
    Hi all,
    YAY, so happy for you PM.
    Thank you ladies sooo much, feeling much better within myself today. Phoned the clinic to let them know, Bleeding still today.
    Did get some news,
    OH's SA on day of EC had gone from 6mill total up to 52mill!!!!!!!!!!!!
    Motility from 39% to 60%!!!!!!! both in a bit of shock.
    Increased vit c and zinc in his supplements before Christmas.
    x
  • Not really pink, I can talk to my manager a bit but like tea its hard when I think she knows my heart isn't in it and all I really want is to be at home with a baby.

    Tea, I did go out to the smokers area for five minutes and got myself together. Not sure what happened just suddenly felt overwhelmed by the fact that we are on our 2nd cycle (sorry, I know others have done more and don't mean to offend but just felt totally unable to cope today). Doesn't help that work is soooo stressful ALL THE TIME.

    How is everyone else doing?

    PM that sounds like a breakthrough to me ;) Even if you don't start tomorrow at least you know funding is approved and you have a plan to start next month? So pleased for you :)
  • Yay, more good news on the thread! Glad you are doing ok GV x
  • tea_lover
    tea_lover Posts: 8,261 Forumite
    Flipping heck gv, that's an impressive improvement! I daren't even ask what oh's results were this time.

    WW, it can be overwhelming. I'm impressed we all keep it together as much as we do tbh. Totally with you about work, I can't stick it and they know that....awkward!

    PM, congrats on the funding :)
  • isla_red
    isla_red Posts: 513 Forumite
    Huge hugs WW I hope you got through the day okay. It's so hard.

    PM hooray! :T Congratulations on the funding! I'm so pleased for you and delighted you've got some movement. Sorry the FS didn't get back to you quick enough but at least you have had some good news.

    GV that is amazing news about your OH, hope you are doing okay.

    tea hope everything went well for you at your review
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  • Part_Mouse
    Part_Mouse Posts: 5,527 Forumite
    Gv what a great improvement on sa.

    Thanks. Ladies. I didn't get to speak to fs and not sure when she's back so no plan as yet as to when my start day will be, finally some good news though.
  • isla_red
    isla_red Posts: 513 Forumite
    It's a glimmer of hope after all the waiting :)
    Sealed Pot Challenge #955
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