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The Trials & Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

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  • picklekin
    picklekin Posts: 889 Forumite
    Scan was.. inconclusive, they said I'm not 6 weeks pregnant. I could still be 2.5 weeks pregnant, and said that teh bleeding could be nothing. It doesn't FEEL like nothing, and who gets a +ve test at 2.5 weeks pregnant?? they did a blood test, and will do another one on Sunday, if my levels go up, all good, if they go down, I miscarried.

    Thanks for all your good wishes, means a lot, sorry I've not read everything through had a hell of a day and want to go to bed now, will read up later, but wanted to update.
  • lisawood78
    lisawood78 Posts: 3,884 Forumite
    Oh picklekin. How very strange frustrating and upsetting for you. Try to rest up if possible , did they tell you the hcg number? Hoping for a good outcome for you x
    2 angels in heaven :A
  • tia86
    tia86 Posts: 956 Forumite
    Big hugs picklekin, I wish they could have given you a better answer
  • Part_Mouse
    Part_Mouse Posts: 5,527 Forumite
    Pickle sorry to hear you dont have an answer right now, ive got everything crossed for a good outcome for you

    Just made my appy, I thought we would be starting IUI the week after next but I have to call then to see about funding :( all forms filled out and signed. Scanned and still bleeding.Fs said not to bother taking anymore hormones before IUI as there doing next to nothing.
  • lisawood78
    lisawood78 Posts: 3,884 Forumite
    BFN 1 day before test day (12dp3dt) so I guess I'm done. After 10 embryo transfers with 2 good/great embryos each time it may be time to admit defeat.
    For once we were both sure it had worked also, which makes a BFN even more cruel.
    2 angels in heaven :A
  • Peonie
    Peonie Posts: 1,471 Forumite
    Sorry Lisa. Are you going to test tomorrow as well?
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  • good_vibes
    good_vibes Posts: 546 Forumite
    *hugs* Lisa, please test again tomorrow.








    AFM, no call from clinic this morning when they said they would. Getting worried and upset :(, full up to the brim with wind and bloated (please be worth it)
  • good_vibes
    good_vibes Posts: 546 Forumite
    Pickle, sorry to see what you are going through, how are you today?
  • So sorry Lisa, wish we could say something to make it better.

    Pickle, that is terrible that they can't tell you whats going on. Still hopeful for the best possible news for you tomorrow.
  • Part_Mouse
    Part_Mouse Posts: 5,527 Forumite
    Lisa Im so sorry :( why is life so cruel huge hugs to you.

    Gv I hope the clinic calls you soon.
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