Official Trying to Conceive - Thread 11

keza

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keza

I've had various cramps today and EWCM seems to have lasted slightly over 2 days then disappeared so Im not sure if perhaps i ovulated today? I had an opk which was not positive but darkest its been since friday, yesterday. now todays 3 have had nothing at all. so Im still all over the place.

I think i ovulated today so can I be put down for 1DPO tomorrow please and i will probably test on my birthday (15th) or a few days after (my first pregnancy had a BFP at 9DPO). if anything changes in the meantime, i will update

pm04gn

slowlyfading wrote: »

Feel a bit sick at the moment and got some weird cramping going on, but not convinced it means anything really....

You?

Odd cramps, tiny bit of spotting that's about it. Trying to stay positive and resist the urge to POAS.

I don't know how TataBubbly is coping with her wait!

lulu_92

come one TataBubbly, slowlyfading & pm04gn - give us some hope!

CD3 at the moment and I'm already on the weird brown bit you get at the end of your cycle! I hope this means I come off tomorrow - I will happily have the longer cycle in exchange for a shorter, less painful period!

tatabubbly

Well did a test first thing and it's a BFN, AF is now 4 days late

Just wish it would come and put me out of my misery. I have been cramping but nothing yet, maybe it's just my body getting back into sync after all the pills etc...

a_fresh_start

tatabubbly, don't worry, it is very likely your body getting used to being off the pill. How many cycles have you been pill free? you're definitely not out till AF arrives do you know when you ovulate / your LP? though even if you know these things, our bodies have a habit of doing their own thing regardless:rotfl:

Today is my longest cycle to date (3months). I'm currently on cd27 (my prev cycles have been 25/26 days long). Despite this, I don't think I'm a day late, just my body getting used to things after being on the pill for 14yrs! i'm pretty sure I ovulated late, FF has changed it from cd 17, cd21 and cd24 :eek: and then back again!! Its not the waiting thats getting me - its the uncertainty thats doing my head in! If AF hasn't shown by the weekend, then I'm going to POAS:p

Strangely, this is the first day that I have NO symptoms - I don't know if this a good thing or not:(

Fingers crossed for everyone, and hugs to those who need it x

ETA: anybody else OH's not quite getting the 2WW? my OH keeps asking - every morning without fail! - "so are you pregnant yet - can you tell me now". like I'm keeping a secret from him:rotfl:

blueneleh

a_fresh_start wrote: »

Strangely, this is the first day that I have NO symptoms - I don't know if this a good thing or not:(

Fingers crossed for everyone, and hugs to those who need it x

ETA: anybody else OH's not quite getting the 2WW? my OH keeps asking - every morning without fail! - "so are you pregnant yet - can you tell me now". like I'm keeping a secret from him:rotfl:

I had no symptoms when pg with DS (and usually loads of symptoms before AF) so this may be a good sign!

Yes - my OH has no clue either. A few days after we've DTD he's asking me if I'm pregnant

Claire_A87

keza wrote: »

I've had various cramps today and EWCM seems to have lasted slightly over 2 days then disappeared so Im not sure if perhaps i ovulated today? I had an opk which was not positive but darkest its been since friday, yesterday. now todays 3 have had nothing at all...

We seem to be at similar stages keza I had my darkest OPK yesterday eve but not a positive (I never see a true positive!) and I've been cramping yesterday & today. I never really get EWCM but think I saw some yesterday & this morning, although it seems to have disappeared again now. I stupidly did an OPK yesterday afternoon when I'd drunk LOADS of water, and now I've run out because of doing a 2nd one in the evening so it's a guessing game from this point on!

My OH asks if I'm preggo like, the day after my period! Although it's almost always tongue in cheek so I let him off. I don't like to involve him in the real nitty gritty, but I talk to him about interesting things to do with implantation etc & he's started to ask about more stuff now, which is nice

lulu_92

blueneleh wrote: »

I had no symptoms when pg with DS (and usually loads of symptoms before AF) so this may be a good sign!

Yes - my OH has no clue either. A few days after we've DTD he's asking me if I'm pregnant

My OH never asks, in fact he gets uncomfortable whenever I bring any aspect of it up. Told him last night I need a plan for this month and he just shrugged.

tatabubbly

Cheers ladies! It's only my first proper cycle of trying and tbh, it nerve wracking! May just do one month try, another month off for now! I don't do well under stress! Lol

Now for AF to arrive..