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Official Trying to Conceive - Thread 11

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  • RebekahR
    RebekahR Posts: 5,987 Forumite
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    keza wrote: »
    Hello!!! I was wondering if i would see any 'old' faces (by no means old btw ;)) Yep, terrified just about covers it but I'm just so broody and DS1 keeps asking for a baby too :happyhear. I pray we are blessed again :) How long have u been here this time?


    48 hours? lol :rotfl:. I'm not broody i'm too scared! I always said i'm wanna hold one but not have one of my own. That newborn stage is yickity. Ah well get out that stage and things should get better :) I can't say i'm desperate though just that I don't want any only child.
  • Welcome to the newcomers!

    Fingers crossed AF stays away for Lulu and Blueneleh!

    And so the symptom spotting begins! 6DPO and been feeling queasy all day with some shall we say digestive issues!

    Going by last few cycles I would expect to see AF by Sunday at the latest. Trying to resist the urge to test but I do have some IC's in stock if I can hold out for a couple more days.
  • slowlyfading
    slowlyfading Posts: 13,429 Forumite
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    I think I ov'd on Sunday so please can I be updated to CD21 2DPO? And the wait begins.... :)

    Fingers crossed for you musogirl!
    Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.
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  • a_fresh_start
    a_fresh_start Posts: 106 Forumite
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    edited 28 October 2014 at 6:13PM
    Hi everyone,

    Absolutely thrilled to read your news thinkpink! Congrats

    Rebekah, I'm glad to read someone else is scared too, but the fact that you've already had one (If I read properly) scares me all the more! I don't know what fears me the most, the carrying or the giving birth part but I'm trying not to think of that just now.

    I'm cd20 at the mo, not certain that I've ovulated / ovulating and I'm hoping this one will only be a few days longer than my previous cycle, but hopefully I will never find out!
  • lulu_92
    lulu_92 Posts: 2,758 Forumite
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    Thanks musogirl, hope AF leaves you alone too!

    fingers crossed slowlyfading!

    I could go back to bed! Like Rebekah, I'm terrified and this is my 1st time trying! Birth terrifies me! OH always says "Well you wanted babies and that's how you get them!"
    Our Rainbow Twins born 17th April 2016
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    :A 29.12.2018 :A



  • I think the fear is a good sign (as long as your not catatonic!) It shows that you've not made this decision lightly.

    I spent my entire pregnancy with DD terrified about the birth. Then about halfway through my 50 hour labour(!) it suddenly turned to fear about being a mother. I remember very clearly wailing to DH "what if she hates me?"!

    Despite the lengthy labour, the birth was OK, and she doesn't hate me (I think!)
  • blueneleh
    blueneleh Posts: 408 Forumite
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    Thanks Musogirl and Dingdong :)

    Slowlyfading - it's not over yet (that's what i keep telling myself anyway!)

    I also worry a bit about how I'll cope with a new born and DS but we'll cross that bridge when we get to it :D
  • lulu_92
    lulu_92 Posts: 2,758 Forumite
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    So glad I'm not the only one!

    I'm even worrying about maternity leave....the end of it!
    Our Rainbow Twins born 17th April 2016
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    :A 29.12.2018 :A



  • slowlyfading
    slowlyfading Posts: 13,429 Forumite
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    blueneleh wrote: »
    Slowlyfading - it's not over yet (that's what i keep telling myself anyway!)
    Very true :) just need to keep myself occupied for the next two weeks!
    Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.
    Personal Finance Blogger + YouTuber / In pursuit of FIRE
  • Hey all! AF is due on Sunday and I got a cold today.. Bleh! Had 2 cups of tea (whoops) to cheer me up!

    Definitely think me and OH are out this month, been craving a bit of chocolate and cuddling! At least I'll be able to enjoy a Halloween tipple!!!

    Congrats to those who got BFP!! :)

    Is there another version of the the sperm that meets the egg? I only have the podcasts
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