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The Giving Up/ Cutting Down alcohol support thread - number 13

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  • CuppaTea
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    You beat me CuppaTea, I failed miserably and had drinks Fri/Sat/Sun. Feeling very disappointed in myself, particularly about last night when I should have resisted.


    Reporting in early for tonight as I definitely won't be drinking:
    March totals so far: AFD = 12, AD = 9, so 12/20 for me please

    Onwards and upwards then eh? Thanks for your honesty though, you could have easily said you did Friday and i'd be none the wiser. Even though I was AF Friday, I consumed more than was sensible on Saturday and I woke Sunday for the first time in ages feeling really awful, sick and hungover. I was very annoyed with myself too.

    Big concerted effort not to binge drink on non AF days and to do Mon-Thurs too this week.

    Last night I watched the Tonight programme on ITV hub on the governments new Alcohol levels of 14 units. It was very interesting and gave me focus too. Worth a watch if you need motivation.

    Anyway here is a fresh new shiny week. I'm calling early as I am confident, have no alcohol in the house and my purse is staying home when I do go out later. Monday's used to be my guaranteed safe day, I will get back to that now.
    Live for the moment and plan for the future
  • shaggydoo
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    Afternoon :hello:

    1 ALD for Friday and 1 AFD for yesterday.

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    Shaggyx
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
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    stupotstu wrote: »
    I also sometimes have a PT which means if I'm paying I definitely will go.

    Got any tips on finding a good PT? I'm thinking about getting one.
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
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    edited 21 March 2016 at 5:01PM
    March:

    easter_bunny001.gif= 7 Days AF

    smiley%20bunny.gif= 14 days AF

    Smilies_Bananas_ChristmasDancing.gifeaster%20eggs%20in%20a%20basket.gif= 21 days AF
    hoppy_easter_sign_by_mirz123-d3eojnl.gif= 28 days AF

    yaysmilesa-smiley.gif= 31 days AF

    smiley-score010.gifbiggrin.gif = target achieved


    Alcohol Free Days

    Arkers 17/15 easter_bunny001.gifsmiley%20bunny.gifbiggrin.gif
    Barny1979 16/26easter_bunny001.gifsmiley%20bunny.gif

    CathyBird 12/15
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    CountingPenniesClaire
    16/21 easter_bunny001.gifsmiley%20bunny.gif
    CuppaTea 7/19
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    DebJay 13/22 easter_bunny001.gif
    DizzyImp 20/31 easter_bunny001.gifsmiley%20bunny.gif

    Effyb4 /14
    Ellsbel 12/31
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    ElusiveLucy 12/20
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    Gabriel 30/30
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    Gien
    10/15 easter_bunny001.gif
    Honey Bear 19/31
    easter_bunny001.gifsmiley%20bunny.gif

    Mackeroo
    6/10

    Maggie 2/13


    Maman
    6/10


    Muser /22
    NewMe
    8/12 easter_bunny001.gif

    Piggles
    6/10
    Pricey
    12/20 easter_bunny001.gif
    Satchmo
    16/27 easter_bunny001.gifsmiley%20bunny.gif
    SandyPan
    14/21 easter_bunny001.gifsmiley%20bunny.gif
    Shaggy 9/17
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    SmallHoldingSister
    8/21 easter_bunny001.gif
    Smiley_77
    20/31 easter_bunny001.gifsmiley%20bunny.gif
    StuPotStu 15/31 easter_bunny001.gifsmiley%20bunny.gif

    WBF 5
    /14

    Yellowmonkey
    4/10

    Alcohol Low Days
    CountingPennieClaire 17/25
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    Debjay 16/TF
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    Shaggy 15/22
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    Everyone Welcome! It's never too late to join....

    Please highlight your AFDs in Red

    Don't hesitate to let me know if I've made a mistake!
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • ElusiveLucy
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    CuppaTea wrote: »
    Onwards and upwards then eh? Thanks for your honesty though, you could have easily said you did Friday and i'd be none the wiser. Even though I was AF Friday, I consumed more than was sensible on Saturday and I woke Sunday for the first time in ages feeling really awful, sick and hungover. I was very annoyed with myself too.

    Big concerted effort not to binge drink on non AF days and to do Mon-Thurs too this week.

    Last night I watched the Tonight programme on ITV hub on the governments new Alcohol levels of 14 units. It was very interesting and gave me focus too. Worth a watch if you need motivation.

    Anyway here is a fresh new shiny week. I'm calling early as I am confident, have no alcohol in the house and my purse is staying home when I do go out later. Monday's used to be my guaranteed safe day, I will get back to that now.


    I'll try and watch that programme. I would have been reasonably OK if I hadn't had 3 (large) drinks last night but that pushed me well over the 14 units. I used to have so much willpower, it seems to have deserted me!


    I am going to go for Mon-Thur AF this week for sure and possibly Friday as well as I am out all day and will probably be driving. Definitely not drinking tonight as I am on a 5:2 fast day, or rather a 6:1 fast day as it seems to have been so far this year!
    What goes around comes around.....I hope!
  • Barny1979
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    17/26 AFDs today :)
  • mackeroo
    mackeroo Posts: 806 Forumite
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    7 AF please shaggy
    It’s not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts
  • debjay
    debjay Posts: 2,091 Forumite
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    14/22 for tonight please.
  • satchmo1
    satchmo1 Posts: 3,246 Forumite
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    18/27 AFDs. Although I had wine on Saturday and Sunday, for a change I didn't binge.


    In unrelated news, whilst test-driving a car today I had to take emergency evasive action to avoid a suicidal cyclist who came out of a junction at speed. The brakes on a the car were thankfully effective!
    What would you get if all you got was what you were thankful for?
  • ManPants
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    shaggydoo wrote: »
    Got any tips on finding a good PT? I'm thinking about getting one.

    Hey Shaggy

    Well if you are London based there are going to be loads about. Finding a great one is hard though. My first one came recommended and I was with him for 18 months should you know anyone with a PT that they can recommend. Next one was a nice guy but didn't push me like number 1. Now on number 3 - still early days.

    When picking a PT, Its not just the importance of the activities, it is also about getting on with them/sense of humour. There are all the periods in between when you're resting between sets and you have to converse and actually get on. Don't forget you may be spending a few hours a week with them.
    Most PTs give a trial so don't be afraid to do that and see how you find it/them.

    Be specific about what you want as well. I wanted to tone up shoulders, arms and abs and trim down body fat for an exotic holiday and had 7 weeks to do so but but loved the first PT so much I stayed on. Plus, it is 80% diet too. Booze is a No No!

    If you already have a gym membership it is almost certain that there will be PTs working there.

    Good Luck!

    Meanwhile, MaggieSoup1 that must have made you gulp a bit! I could tell you dreadful stories of me at work as well. Maybe these comments will help you focus on being AF as unbearably difficult as it is. Sometimes it can take something like that to make us take heed.

    Have made a full 7 days straight now. My best since january and taking me to 16/31 AF so far.

    Good Luck!

    SPS X
    Quit Smoking 12 years 2 months.
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