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The Giving Up/ Cutting Down alcohol support thread - number 13

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  • cathybird
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    Honey Bear, I'm so sorry to hear your friend died :( I hope you are as okay as the circumstances allow. It just sounds so sad. x
  • shaggydoo
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    Morning :hello:

    March started with an AFD.

    Off to watch Arsenal tonight ilpleut.gif

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    Shaggyx
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
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    piggles1 wrote: »
    Hi all :)

    I've done quite well and not so well. I've moved now, and just before I moved I had 3 AFDs in a row which I was pleased about although it was tough. So that took my total for February to 17/18 AFD.

    But since I moved I've struggled really badly and drank too much every night :( and I missed my target for february.

    Shaggy please can I change my target for March to an easier 10 AFDs? Sorry to make work for you when you do so much work for the thread already :)

    I'm hoping things start to get a bit easier for me soon, I'm like a fish out of water really and miss my old place badly. I've stopped caring and don't know how to get back to my AFDs. There's no pub here though which is good ;)

    Hope you're all doing well, some of the AFD totals look amazing, well done for all the february smileys :)

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    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
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    edited 2 March 2016 at 12:19PM
    Honey_Bear wrote: »
    Jane died.

    Sorry to read that HB. Far too young :(

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    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • maman
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    So sorry to hear about your friend HB. A colleague of my DH died on Monday. She fell over (not alcohol related) on Saturday evening, hit her head and died of the brain trauma in less than 48 hours. It's making us feel very mortal but also very fortunate at the moment.:)


    piggles, a house move is up there with divorce and bereavement as the most stressful episodes in life so cut yourself some slack. I really find planning my drinking days/AF days works better for me than expecting every day to be AF.



    shaggydoo wrote: »
    Off to watch Arsenal tonight ilpleut.gif

    Shaggyx


    Just hope you have a better evening than I did yesterday. We played like a bunch of amateurs and got out just desserts! Enough to drive anyone to drink.;)


    Definitely AF today.


    1 AFD please Shaggy.
  • shaggydoo
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    maman wrote: »
    Just hope you have a better evening than I did yesterday. We played like a bunch of amateurs and got out just desserts! Enough to drive anyone to drink.;)

    Fingers crossed fingers-crossed-yellow.gif Swansea haven't been playing that well of late - so I'm hopeful......just hope the weather isn't too awful - rain is forecast.
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
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    February:

    flaggen-smilies-0004.gif= 7 Days AF

    loveshower.gif= 14 days AF

    Smilies_Bananas_ChristmasDancing.gifyay-1.gif= 21 days AF
    ban-woohoo.gif= 28 days AF

    yaysmilesa-smiley.gif= 29 days AF

    smiley-score010.gifbiggrin.gif = target achieved


    Alcohol Free Days

    Alex 15/25
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    Arkers 13/TF flaggen-smilies-0004.gif
    Barny1979 25/24 flaggen-smilies-0004.gifloveshower.gifyay-1.gifbiggrin.gif
    CathyBird 15/15
    flaggen-smilies-0004.gifloveshower.gifbiggrin.gif
    CountingPenniesClaire 21/23
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    DansMam
    8 /25 flaggen-smilies-0004.gif
    DebJay
    29/29 flaggen-smilies-0004.gifloveshower.gifyay-1.gifban-woohoo.gifbiggrin.gifyaysmilesa-smiley.gif
    DizzyImp 15/25 flaggen-smilies-0004.gifloveshower.gif
    Effyb4 8/14 flaggen-smilies-0004.gif

    ElusiveLucy 6/?
    Gabriel 15/30
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    Gien
    10/21 flaggen-smilies-0004.gif
    Honey Bear 29/29
    flaggen-smilies-0004.gifloveshower.gifyay-1.gifban-woohoo.gifyaysmilesa-smiley.gifbiggrin.gif
    Mackeroo 9/12 flaggen-smilies-0004.gif
    Maggie 9/11
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    Maman
    15/10
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    Muser 1/8
    NewMe 11/20
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    Piggles
    17/18 flaggen-smilies-0004.gifloveshower.gif

    Poppety /17
    Pricey
    17/22 flaggen-smilies-0004.gifloveshower.gif
    Satchmo
    29/29flaggen-smilies-0004.gifloveshower.gifyay-1.gifban-woohoo.gifyaysmilesa-smiley.gifbiggrin.gif
    SandyPan
    22/21 flaggen-smilies-0004.gifloveshower.gifyay-1.gif
    Shaggy 17/17
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    SmallHoldingSister
    23/24 flaggen-smilies-0004.gifloveshower.gifyay-1.gif
    Smiley_77 25/29
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    StuPotStu
    7/29flaggen-smilies-0004.gif
    WBF 12/14
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    Yellowmonkey
    15/15 flaggen-smilies-0004.gifloveshower.gifbiggrin.gif

    Alcohol Low Days

    Shaggy 25/21
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    Everyone Welcome! It's never too late to join....

    Please highlight your AFDs in Red

    Don't hesitate to let me know if I've made a mistake!
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
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    March:

    easter_bunny001.gif= 7 Days AF

    smiley%20bunny.gif= 14 days AF

    Smilies_Bananas_ChristmasDancing.gifeaster%20eggs%20in%20a%20basket.gif= 21 days AF
    hoppy_easter_sign_by_mirz123-d3eojnl.gif= 28 days AF

    yaysmilesa-smiley.gif= 31 days AF

    smiley-score010.gifbiggrin.gif = target achieved


    Alcohol Free Days


    Alex


    Arkers 1/15


    Barny1979
    1/26

    CathyBird 1/15


    CountingPenniesClaire
    1/21

    DansMam


    DebJay 1 /22


    DizzyImp
    1/31

    Effyb4 /14

    Ellsbel 1/31

    ElusiveLucy /20
    Gabriel 15/30
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    Gien


    Honey Bear 2/31


    Mackeroo
    /10

    Maggie 1/13


    Maman
    1/10


    Muser /22

    NewMe
    1/12

    Piggles
    /10

    Poppety

    Pricey
    /20

    Satchmo
    1 /27

    SandyPan
    /21

    Shaggy 1/17


    SmallHoldingSister
    /21

    Smiley_77


    StuPotStu


    WBF
    /14

    Yellowmonkey
    /10

    Alcohol Low Days

    CountingPennieClaire /25


    Shaggy 1/22





    Everyone Welcome! It's never too late to join....

    Please highlight your AFDs in Red

    Don't hesitate to let me know if I've made a mistake!
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    Roll up, Roll up. A New Month, A New Challenge.
    march-easter-eggs.pnghello-march-blue-photo.jpg
    SET YOUR
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    30 days up for grabs!

    Everyone Welcome!!!
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • ManPants
    ManPants Posts: 559 Forumite
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    Hello Everyone

    So I entered #drymarch with a resounding hangover from a very wet #dryfebruary. Completed Feb with a rather poor 9/29 AF . The leap year extra day was wasted as I was so ill I could barely function. That night I had a social event on and heard myself order a soda at the bar then change it to a beer. Fast forward to the next day and not only have I lost that day too to a hangover but gained a broken toe as well from the previous nights shenanigans.

    So far 1/31 AF for March so far.

    Have a trip to Europe and a wedding in a stately home to get through somehow sober this month.

    Great to read so many positive stories from you all. :T

    SPS X
    Quit Smoking 12 years 2 months.
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