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The Giving Up/ Cutting Down alcohol support thread - number 13

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  • Honey_Bear
    Honey_Bear Posts: 7,520 Forumite
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    edited 31 August 2014 at 10:56PM
    *grabs Barny's hand* and skips across the line:

    31/31 please Shaggy!

    No month is ever going to be so precious as this first one totally alcohol free, so thank you every single person that has lurked and thus bumped the numbers up, or more helpfullly, posted during August with special thanks to Shaggy for being fabulous as well as dedicated, Maman, Gien, Chardonnay, Fruball, RedemptionSong, GraemeCarter, Wanna Bee Free, AlexLK, Top Girl, Macpep1 and Barny for persistence in the posting area and all round support. I couldn't have done it without you all.

    And in real life, that's a total of 37 days sober. It feels pretty amazing.
    Better is good enough.
  • gien
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    WOW, WELL DONE
    Honey Bear, that's great!! :j:j:j

    I can feel your happiness from your post - I am thrilled for you.

    Here's to a great September too!!
    Trying to keep in budget.

    2270
  • Honey_Bear
    Honey_Bear Posts: 7,520 Forumite
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    edited 1 September 2014 at 10:26AM
    Thank you Gien - I am very, very happy. For the past few years I've found that personal achievements are more satisfying than buying 'stuff' or going on expensive holidays, and two months ago this one just wouldn't have seemed possible. In addiction therapy, apparently, it's called having a 'high bottom' (if only, in real life) rather than waiting until I reached rock bottom to start dealing with the issue.

    I started reading Drink by Ann Dowsett Johnston last night (library book), and came across a quote that I found helpful, so it's my new signature. The over-confidence thing is my biggest worry.
    Better is good enough.
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    Morning :hello:

    We had a long weekend away so no more AFDs to add for August. Will be jumping back on the wagon tonight and clocking up 1 for September hopefully - out for a friend's birthday meal tomorrow - think I might make it an AF evening. Will see.

    september_happy.jpeg

    Shaggyx
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    Top_Girl wrote: »
    Also, I want to lose some serious lard before Christmas so fewer empty alcohol calories will help there.

    Me too! Half a stone would be nice:)
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    Honey_Bear wrote: »
    31/31 please Shaggy!

    No month is ever going to be so precious as this first one totally alcohol free

    Congrats1.gif
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    August:

    Smiley_soleil___Sun_by_Lucifer4671.gif= 7 Days AF

    soleil07j.gif= 14 days AF

    th_smiley_sun.gif= 21 days AF

    smiley_emoticons_saint.gif= 28 days AF

    gold-medalist-smiley.gif?1292867608 = 31 days AF

    smiley-score010.gifcloud9.gif = target achieved



    Alex 9/TF
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    Barny1979
    26/26 Smiley_soleil___Sun_by_Lucifer4671.gifsoleil07j.gifth_smiley_sun.gifcloud9.gif
    BlueDaisy 16/16 Smiley_soleil___Sun_by_Lucifer4671.gifsoleil07j.gifcloud9.gif
    Chardonnay 18/16 Smiley_soleil___Sun_by_Lucifer4671.gifsoleil07j.gifcloud9.gif
    DebJay 17/20 Smiley_soleil___Sun_by_Lucifer4671.gifsoleil07j.gif

    Dprovan 3/12

    FlatEric /10
    Fruball 9/TF Smiley_soleil___Sun_by_Lucifer4671.gif
    Gien 15/21 Smiley_soleil___Sun_by_Lucifer4671.gifsoleil07j.gif
    Honey Bear 31/31 Smiley_soleil___Sun_by_Lucifer4671.gifsoleil07j.gifth_smiley_sun.gifsmiley_emoticons_saint.gifgold-medalist-smiley.gif?1292867608cloud9.gif

    HopefulJoy 1/17

    Macpep /20
    Maman 12/10 Smiley_soleil___Sun_by_Lucifer4671.gifcloud9.gif

    MillieMoll 1/14
    Pricey 16/20 Smiley_soleil___Sun_by_Lucifer4671.gifsoleil07j.gif
    RedemptionSong 10/14 Smiley_soleil___Sun_by_Lucifer4671.gif
    Satchmo 17/20Smiley_soleil___Sun_by_Lucifer4671.gif soleil07j.gif
    Shaggy 18/17Smiley_soleil___Sun_by_Lucifer4671.gifsoleil07j.gifcloud9.gif

    Strandedinaber /31


    Stupotstu 2/TF

    Sukeyboo
    4/12
    TopGirl 19/20 Smiley_soleil___Sun_by_Lucifer4671.gifsoleil07j.gif

    Wanna Bee Free
    2/14


    Everyone Welcome! It's never too late to join....

    Please highlight your AFDs in Red

    Don't hesitate to let me know if I've made a mistake!
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    September:

    th_dancin2smiley-1.gif= 7 Days AF

    dancing-banana-homer-simpson-smiley-emoticon.gif= 14 days AF

    smiley-bravo.gif= 21 days AF

    smiley_emoticons_saint.gif= 28 days AF

    gold-medalist-smiley.gif?1292867608 = 30 days AF

    smiley-score010.gifcloud9.gif = target achieved



    Alex


    Barny1979
    /26

    BlueDaisy
    /18

    Chardonnay
    /18

    DebJay
    /20

    Dprovan

    FlatEric

    Fruball


    Gien
    /22

    Honey Bear /30


    HopefulJoy

    Macpep

    Maman
    /10

    MillieMoll

    Pricey


    RedemptionSong


    Satchmo
    /20

    Shaggy /17


    Strandedinaber


    Stupotstu

    Sukeyboo


    TopGirl /30


    Wanna Bee Free



    Everyone Welcome! It's never too late to join....

    Please highlight your AFDs in Red

    Don't hesitate to let me know if I've made a mistake!
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    Roll up, Roll up. A New Month, A New Challenge.
    September-Sign.png

    SET YOUR

    Target_logo.jpg
    30 days up for grabs!

    Everyone Welcome!!!
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • Puzzcat
    Puzzcat Posts: 4,200 Forumite
    edited 1 September 2014 at 7:01PM
    I would like to join if I may? I will set a target of 14 for September, thank you.
    Puzz
    Christmas 2020 £109
    I love my dmp started in Nov 13 with SC. Self Managed 2016 57% done
    £60062/25384.84 - 13222.60k UE

    MY DIARY
    http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.php?t=4768685
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