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How often do you update your look?

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  • I've just been thinking about this actually. As one of you said, I think I've got nothing to wear because I've got so much in my wardrobe, and most of it I don't wear. I don't feel like I have my own sense of style, so maybe I should give this personal shopping thing a go.
    No more goo hoarding!

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  • Outer_Limits
    Outer_Limits Posts: 10,576 Forumite
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    The major reason I didn't get a lot of wear out of some clothes was that the colour didn't quite work. Since I had my colours done many years ago (for free, the trainer demonstrated on me)
    it has saved me loads of money :D and most pieces work together.

    The main advantage was realising which colours 'drained' me - e.g. the ones I used to buy when I was well tanned, but most of the year just looked wrong somehow.

    My basics soldier on until they need replacing, bit like Minerva's.
  • Rummer
    Rummer Posts: 6,550 Forumite
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    I have come to accept that there are certain fashions that suit me and so I now no longer dramatically change my look, instead I tweak it. Mainly through colour and materials.

    Every 6 months I head to the beauty counter to get my foundation checked and to make sure I am using the right makeup finish for my age and skin type and once a year I get my skin care regime checked.

    My hair I get cut to chin/shoulder length and then I leave it to grow out before getting it cut shorter again and I vary the shade that it is although not dramatically.
    Taking responsibility one penny at a time!
  • gradi
    gradi Posts: 25 Forumite
    When i can afford to lol
    Oh Yay What a Great Freebie! Quote by Gradi O'Connell 2013 :j
  • Ruby789
    Ruby789 Posts: 312 Forumite
    edited 21 January 2014 at 11:40AM
    Just popping back to give a little update. Have found this interesting reading, so thank you for your replies.

    I asked my boyfriend and best friend to comment on what I wear (and after much assurances I wouldn't get upset!) I have had some useful feedback. Interestingly they line up with some of the comments / suggestions made.

    1. I wear a lot of clothes that look the same / very similar.

    It seems I do have a palette of colours I rely on (complete fluke) and they agree they suit me. But you can't tell my three teal dresses apart for example, so money not well spent there.

    2. I wear clothes that age me.

    Mostly this is aimed at my work wardrobe, but boyf would like it if I dressed a little more 'fun' sometimes. I'm 30, I need to find a role model or two and look to them for style tips. Thanks to wannabeslimfor this idea.

    3. I can be a bit of a 'plain jane'.

    I felt a bit too 'done'/'trying to hard' a few years back and stopped bothering with accessories. Seems I've gone too far and no longer bother with any details at all. I'm shy and a little overweight - guess I am 'hiding' a little. Perhaps also explains why I bought nearly the same dress three times and didn't notice till it wass pointed out!

    4. I've not changed my hair style since I was 11!!!

    Fair point. Have security blanket long layered hair. Need to think on this point. Rummer is onto something here.

    5. I wear my make up the same way all the time, day and night.

    I have plenty of make-up (I'm sure you're not suprised!) but use none of it. Have found a safe 'look' and do that one all the time. Time to experiment and find a few other ways to wear my face :rotfl:

    Big sort through is done. Now it's finessing and using what I have to better advantage. I spent years overspending to amass this collection of clothes etc... so I hope to be able to find a way to use most of it. The rest is ebay bound, the money made is to be used to make clever purchases in line with the above.

    Seriously considering a personal shopper for spring / summer. A fresh perspective is exactly what I need.

    For everyone else pondering about this kind of thing, hope some of that gives ideas.
    Debt free (finally) and saving a deposit for my first home.
  • Artytarty
    Artytarty Posts: 2,642 Forumite
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    http://www.thechicfashionista.com/seasonal-color-analysis-2.html#Cool%20wintervssummer

    This might be helpful for some of us.im still struggling to pinpoint myself though! Warm winter maybe.
    Norn Iron Club member 473
  • Ruby789 wrote: »
    Just popping back to give a little update. Have found this interesting reading, so thank you for your replies.

    I asked my boyfriend and best friend to comment on what I wear (and after much assurances I wouldn't get upset!) I have had some useful feedback. Interestingly they line up with some of the comments / suggestions made.

    1. I wear a lot of clothes that look the same / very similar.

    It seems I do have a palette of colours I rely on (complete fluke) and they agree they suit me. But you can't tell my three teal dresses apart for example, so money not well spent there.

    2. I wear clothes that age me.

    Mostly this is aimed at my work wardrobe, but boyf would like it if I dressed a little more 'fun' sometimes. I'm 30, I need to find a role model or two and look to them for style tips. Thanks to wannabeslimfor this idea.

    3. I can be a bit of a 'plain jane'.

    I felt a bit too 'done'/'trying to hard' a few years back and stopped bothering with accessories. Seems I've gone too far and no longer bother with any details at all. I'm shy and a little overweight - guess I am 'hiding' a little. Perhaps also explains why I bought nearly the same dress three times and didn't notice till it wass pointed out!

    4. I've not changed my hair style since I was 11!!!

    Fair point. Have security blanket long layered hair. Need to think on this point. Rummer is onto something here.

    5. I wear my make up the same way all the time, day and night.

    I have plenty of make-up (I'm sure you're not suprised!) but use none of it. Have found a safe 'look' and do that one all the time. Time to experiment and find a few other ways to wear my face :rotfl:

    Big sort through is done. Now it's finessing and using what I have to better advantage. I spent years overspending to amass this collection of clothes etc... so I hope to be able to find a way to use most of it. The rest is ebay bound, the money made is to be used to make clever purchases in line with the above.

    Seriously considering a personal shopper for spring / summer. A fresh perspective is exactly what I need.

    For everyone else pondering about this kind of thing, hope some of that gives ideas.



    Good luck :) Please think very carefully before having your long hair cut, Bobs etc can be very aging when you hit 30, imo they are a school run type of hair cut and a touch frumpy unless they are cut in an edgy way which requires upkeep, you can always put long hair up or tie it back :)
  • Ruby789
    Ruby789 Posts: 312 Forumite
    Please think very carefully before having your long hair cut

    Thanks wannabeslim, I will. I'll start trying to wear my hair differently sometimes and see how I feel. Guess I've just become increadibly lazy with it (though at the same time I cherish it).
    Debt free (finally) and saving a deposit for my first home.
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