Is this website dodgy?

DUTR

barbarawright wrote: »

I find it hard to believe that any public nudist beach doesn't have rules about no photography. Most swimming pools in this country do. If it was legal, why was he doing it secretly?

Probably because he knew his Mrs (The OP) would object.
I'm surprised the OP teamed up with him, however not all men are pervs everybody has their own flavour and what suits one won't suit another, that is the reality.

Gavin83

Me and my girlfriend have both been on a nudist beach. However I'd be really !!!!ed if I knew someone had taken pictures of me and put them on the internet. Theres a vast difference between the two.

As for the website it just seems like a fairly standard !!!!!! site to me. Having had a quick look, none of the women look like they particularly mind, although it's questionable if they know the pics are being posted online.

thorsoak

The OP seems to have a very strange sort of relationship with her OH:-
http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/search.php?searchid=151714874

sniff, sniff ....do I detect a slight aroma of *ro** ??

BitterAndTwisted

Does it matter whether that website is "dodgy" or not? In my opinion all that matters is how you feel about his furtive use of it.

From what you describe of his private life it seems to me that your husband has very particular requirements which you are unable fulfill. Very possibly because you are not the right gender. I've never heard of a straight man using poppers, but this could be a result of my very sheltered life, I dunno.

This can't be fixed unless both of you are prepared to be utterly honest with each other, or you just ignore the whole thing and carry on as you are. It's up to you.

DUTR

thorsoak wrote: »

The OP seems to have a very strange sort of relationship with her OH:-
http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/search.php?searchid=151714874

sniff, sniff ....do I detect a slight aroma of *ro** ??

That link doesn't work, and that site above is rubbish.

FBaby

It's been going on for some time now. Don't you ever discuss his sexual problem? Either he has a problem that you can sort out together, or he has a problem that he doesn't want to share with you clearly leading him to doing things behind your back.

thorsoak

DUTR wrote: »

That link doesn't work, and that site above is rubbish.

Sorry - see this link to other MSE posts https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/4451879

paulineb_2

Dont think that necessarily means troll, seems like its someone trying to convince themselves that its all their fault and things arent so bad, from reading that it sounds like the marriage is very unhappy, Id say get out and soon before you end up feeling worse than you already do.

barbarawright

DUTR wrote: »

Probably because he knew his Mrs (The OP) would object.
I'm surprised the OP teamed up with him, however not all men are pervs everybody has their own flavour and what suits one won't suit another, that is the reality.

OP says this was when he was with his ex who was a 'swinger' which suggests a certain open-mindedness. But not 'open-minded' enough not to object to someone secretly filming naked women (where?)

Georgiegirl256

Do you even have to ask OP? I think you know the answer to the question.