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Monkeyballs

Hi Spira,

I've read through this thread and while I don't have any experience of JSA or the unemployment/jobseeking process (I've always been lucky enough to be in work) I think that the folk on here are referring (in perhaps a none to helpful way) to the way you are probably coming across...

I'm not trying to sound patronising and I apologise if that's how I'm coming across but if you come across with a negative attitude then you will struggle and you will rub people up the wrong way which in turn will make your life more difficult.

Force yourself to smile and be more positive and try to push yourself to do better and you'll probably see people give you more respect - consider this wouldn't it be good to get that stroppy miserable woman to smile and give you some respect when you see her?

I know it's difficult because it is easy to get stuck in a rut but positivity breeds success!

I think this is what people are trying to say anyway...

Good luck hun!

MB

spira

You guys are coming with a negative attitude towards me. Anyone that has been in my situation knows how bad the 'help' is. Again instead of sticking to the thread topic like I said you personally comment as if you know me.

So again why guys browse the benefit forum just to gloat and be negative towards people? Even in your reply you have insulted me.

So basically f--- off? I will be closing my account.

dodger1

spira wrote: »

You guys are coming with a negative attitude towards me. Anyone that has been in my situation knows how bad the 'help' is. Again instead of sticking to the thread topic like I said you personally comment as if you know me.

So again why guys browse the benefit forum just to gloat and be negative towards people? Even in your reply you have insulted me.

So basically f--- off? I will be closing my account.

With that attitude, goodbye and good riddance.