Less than 12 weeks pregnant club! Part 4!!

mary_hinge

My scan showed a incomplete miscarriage with retained products, I have a 2 week review which will decide whether I will need to have ERCP/meds but it's looking like nature is doing its job so far.

Good luck ladies

Mrs H x

kirtsypoos

So sorry Mrs H. Fingers crossed you don't need the intervention, thinking of you x

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So sorry for your loss Mary, I know you suspected it, but it must still be a big blow. I hope you recover quickly and get through the heartache too.

sweetilemon

Oh no Mary I was still hoping you'd come back to tell us all is well. So sorry to hear about your MC. Hope you manage to pass everything naturally. Hope to see you back here when you feel strong enough.

Welcome MrsNubs!! Good to have you here. Can I ask a little about you? I only popped into the TTC briefly so don't know much about everyone.

Well my little jelly bean is growing well and is measuring 8+3 weeks. Next scan is my 12week scan.

sweetilemon

kirtsypoos wrote: »

sweetilemon do you feel that they are being supportive and helping to manage your anxiety? Are you having more monitoring this time around?

Fingers crossed for your scan Mary

They have been very understanding. My 2 scans were reassurances scans, they didn't have to give them until 2 weeks of bleeding under NICE guidelines.

MrsNubs

sweetielemon of course! DH and I are both 29, this is our first. We've been trying for 11 months, but I have very long and irregular cycles (in the 11 months we were trying they ranged from 23-75 days!) so we've actually only had 6 cycles in the time we've been trying. Anything else you'd like to know, please ask away.

We recently moved house so I hadn't yet registered with a local dr, so did that yesterday and they booked me in to see the midwife on 12th September. Seems so soon, I thought I'd have a longer wait.

Mary so sorry to hear about your loss, I hope everything passes smoothly and you're not in too much pain. Sending lots of hugs

sweetilemon

Ooh same age as me MrsNubs!! Ugh irregular cycle's make it tricky!! A lot of peeing on sticks needed lol. All worth it though :-) That's good you have your appointment through.

I got my 12 week scan appointment through today. It's the 14th Sept. Not sure if I'll still be measuring a week earlier though.

I was at my daughters remembrance service today, it was beautiful. The childrens hospice invite us every year to remember the children that died there. Emotional but a lovely day. They include the siblings which is lovely so hopefully I'll have a 4 1/2 month old next year! Fingers crossed.

Rachylou1981

So sorry to hear your news Mary. I hope that nature takes it's course for you soon and you take all the support you can get. It's such an awful thing to go through. Take care of yourself.

Welcome MrsNubs and congratulations

Sweetilemon, that's so nice that you are able to go to a service each year for your daughter. Next year will be such a blessing to have her little brother or sister there too

Regarding my scan, I've rang the hospital most days that I've probably starting becoming really annoying. My referral still hadn't arrived so I asked midwife to fax it on Friday and by 2.30pm she hadn't done it. Not surprised as I find her useless. Luckily she is only my GP midwife and won't be involved in birth as I'm going to another hospital further away. I think that's why it's a delay as she's just not as on the ball with referrals elsewhere. Anyway, I'll keep ringing this week to get it sorted.

sweetilemon

Rachylou1981 wrote: »

So sorry to hear your news Mary. I hope that nature takes it's course for you soon and you take all the support you can get. It's such an awful thing to go through. Take care of yourself.

Welcome MrsNubs and congratulations

Sweetilemon, that's so nice that you are able to go to a service each year for your daughter. Next year will be such a blessing to have her little brother or sister there too

Regarding my scan, I've rang the hospital most days that I've probably starting becoming really annoying. My referral still hadn't arrived so I asked midwife to fax it on Friday and by 2.30pm she hadn't done it. Not surprised as I find her useless. Luckily she is only my GP midwife and won't be involved in birth as I'm going to another hospital further away. I think that's why it's a delay as she's just not as on the ball with referrals elsewhere. Anyway, I'll keep ringing this week to get it sorted.

I was told after my booking appointment the 12 week scan is automatically generated from the information imputed into the computer at that appointment. Thats pretty annoying!! Mine came through on the Saturday, my booking was on the Monday. Hope it comes through soon xx

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Well I don't feel ready to move on yet, but I've had my dating scan this morning and all was well! Little one moving and stretching and rolling around frustrating the sonographer :-) Very exciting, but still don't quite believe it.

Hope nobody minds if I stay here a while (am technically still 11 weeks).