Less than 12 weeks pregnant club! Part 4!!

emmaj30

Rebekah , you can always come on here for support.. we will try our best to comfort you x I know we cant provide you with babysitting issues but we can give you encouragement and try and support you in other ways! even though I shouldn't really be in this board any more!! xx

a_fresh_start

Oh Rebekah I'm sorry you're run ragged. You sound exhausted. Leave the chores, that's what hubbies are for , and if you can, put your little one in to a crèche or childminder for a few hours or a full day if possible. It's not selfish, it will do you both the world of good. you will get a rest (do not do any major chores! Potter about if it will make you feel better) Importantly get out for some fresh air then have a nap, and your DD will get to burn off some energy playing with other kids. Win win.

Really sorry that you have been left alone / unsupported at this time - we're here for you if you need to rant/offload x

Claire_A87

Really sorry you're struggling Rebekah You sound thoroughly exhausted, which always makes things seem ten times worse. I can't blame you for feeling abandoned - your family don't sound particularly supportive.

I was wondering if you had any friends locally who could help you out? If not, a childminder as a fresh start has suggested might be the most cost effective solution. Even if it's just for one day to give you some downtime.

Also remember you're at a really critical point in your pregnancy where the baby is doing loads of developing and your nausea is peaking. It will get better in the next few weeks.

We're all here for you

Gelly123

Ladies, just a quick note to say I'm going to be keeping a low profile for a bit.

Had a scan on Tuesday morning and it doesn't look good - measuring perfectly but empty sac. Repeat scan booked for next Tuesday but have been warned that I may miscarry before then. If repeat scan next Tuesday shows still intact, I will probably have to have ERPC again.

3/4 miscarriages in a row - life is such a b*tch sometimes.

Love and luck to you all
Gelly
x

musogirl295

So sorry to hear that Gelly. Take care of yourself x

Claire_A87

I'm so so sorry Gelly. Please look after yourself.

I hope the medical profession will really start investigating this for you, it's not something anyone should have to go through once nevermind 3/4 times.

Thinking of you x

LisaJane

Sorry to hear that Gelly. *hugs*

I had a first appointment with the community midwife today. It was basically a hello how are you sort of thing. She said they'll be doing all the detailed stuff at next week's appointment which is linked to my 12 week scan in 2 weeks time.

I told her my main issue is anxiety that everything is ok. She said she couldn't reassure me as she says anything can happen at any time in pregnancy. She said the only thing she can suggest is that I take the attitude of so far so good as that is all you can really do. Sort of reassuring but sort of not at the same time! Just can't wait for the scan so see that there is actually something there and it is ok!! Hopefuly?!?!

a_fresh_start

Gelly really sorry to read your news. Please take care of yourself xxx

pm04gn

Sorry to hear your news Gelly, I hope you get some answers and solutions soon.

a_fresh_start

Hope everyone is doing ok?

I've my early scan tomorrow, feeling really nervous about it. The lack of pregnancy symptoms is fuelling my worries, but fingers crossed all ok.

Can I ask if anyone else is still working out/ running / managing to go the gym? I've literally done nothing for 8 weeks, and on one hand it's getting me down but on the other, I also don't feel like doing anything either:rotfl: