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The Good, the Mad & the Lovely

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  • lutzi1 wrote: »
    Welcome springblossom28.

    A gentle hint, you'll have RedFox, our lovely mod, after you if you offer codes etc on this thread, it causes MSE problems. You might like to edit your post.

    Stick around and do join in. :)

    Hi,
    Thankyou for your hint. I'll put the codes into my 'recycle' bin :D.
  • pattylabelle
    pattylabelle Posts: 7,474 Forumite
    Ninth Anniversary Combo Breaker
    edited 17 December 2013 at 12:26PM
    coke multibuys are off

    scrub that they are back
    never stop doing your best because someone doesn't give you credit
  • choclate24 wrote: »
    my son would love this how do i pm you
    Hi choclate24, have pm'ed you.
  • Sarahdol75
    Sarahdol75 Posts: 7,717 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts
    wendyak wrote: »
    Morning gang
    Please could I have an extra big hug today as things are pretty bad.
    My (aspergers) son who only got engaged a few weeks ago has been dumped by his fianc!e and she has signed up to work abroad:(
    She was really brutal to him and all I could hear was him sobbing, its really terrible as its been going on for about five days and he has been sick/upset tummy etc, he looks so skinny already and yesterday he weighed himself and he has lost a stone .....
    to add insult to injury she wants to see him Friday to finalise a few t hings, I think he shouldn't go as she is loving it and he is just being tortured more.
    We are going to all help clear his room tonight as there are many things that remind him and they need to be put away, I am so worried about him as all he does is cry.

    Bless him, we do feel for our kids don't we, just be there for him, like you are and hope things improve for him soon.
  • pacifica9
    pacifica9 Posts: 3,262 Forumite
    wendyak wrote: »
    Morning gang
    Please could I have an extra big hug today as things are pretty bad.
    My (aspergers) son who only got engaged a few weeks ago has been dumped by his fianc!e and she has signed up to work abroad:(
    She was really brutal to him and all I could hear was him sobbing, its really terrible as its been going on for about five days and he has been sick/upset tummy etc, he looks so skinny already and yesterday he weighed himself and he has lost a stone .....
    to add insult to injury she wants to see him Friday to finalise a few t hings, I think he shouldn't go as she is loving it and he is just being tortured more.
    We are going to all help clear his room tonight as there are many things that remind him and they need to be put away, I am so worried about him as all he does is cry.

    Huge hugs to you and your son.
    “Life moves pretty fast. If you don't stop and look around once in a while you could miss it.” ~ Ferris Bueller
  • hornetgirl
    hornetgirl Posts: 6,155 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker Mortgage-free Glee!
    Happy Anniversary Mr & Mrs mhoc


    (((Wendyak and son)))
  • underperky
    underperky Posts: 5,217 Forumite
    Happy Anniversary Mr and Mrs Moc
  • EMMAP
    EMMAP Posts: 4,746 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    wendyak :(

    What a terrible time of year for this to happen. It might not seem like it, but crying is a good thing. I had a break up in October and although we weren't engaged, I think I loved him more than any man I've ever known. I cried solidly for two days. Didn't eat, didn't want to go out. I was generally miserable for weeks. But the old adage is true- if you let them go and they don't come back they were never yours to begin with. It's unpleasant to think about but if the girl in question can bear to leave your son then it sounds like she's not the right girl for him.

    Regardless of what happens, we're all thinking of you. It must be tougher with Aspergers but I'm sure he'll come out the other end x
    Debt free 6th December 2014 :)

    'Kindness is a simple act to show someone that you see them and that they're worth it'
  • wendyak. XXXXOOOO
    never stop doing your best because someone doesn't give you credit
  • rhosynbach
    rhosynbach Posts: 7,664 Forumite
    happy anniversary to the moc s hope you have a great day xx
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