Soon to be Mum

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Hi all
A little early I know, but we have been told we are 12 weeks pregnant. And would like some MS tips so we can start getting organised as soon as possible.
Anyone got any advice, hints or tips?
Many thanks
A little early I know, but we have been told we are 12 weeks pregnant. And would like some MS tips so we can start getting organised as soon as possible.
Anyone got any advice, hints or tips?
Many thanks
Mortgage: 01/02/14 - £108k
Mortgage: Current - £97k
Mission: MF by 50
Mortgage: Current - £97k
Mission: MF by 50
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We saved lots by buying big items (pram and highchairs etc) second hand.
MFW OPd 2014 £2000 2013 £9700 2012 £2848.39 2011 £2509.58 2010 £11000 2009 £112002008 £4939
Also if you're on facebook see if your local town has a selling site as my town does and all the parents post a picture of what they're selling and you pick it up locally so no fee involved like ebay.
Join lots of baby clubs like Boots etc to get freebies.
Cloth nappies can save money especially if you plan to save more than one child.
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Depends on you really. I was a bit weird regarding stuff like nursery furniture. Being my first (and probably only) I really didn't want a 2nd hand cot so we signed up to mothercare babyplan. This meant that, once the furniture was chosen, we paid a 10% deposit then paid the balance off as we could. It was such a life saver, we could never have afforded to buy what we wanted outright. If we had an extra tenner in our wallet we would just pay that off the balance....every little goes a long way. This IS NOT credit
Another thing I did was make a list of the absolute stuff....stuff you can't do without then hit the car boots/ebay.
I really wish I bought a 2nd hand travel system, we paid so much for it new but didn't get anywhere as much use out of it as we thought we would (it was just so bulky, despite folding down flat, and felt a stroller was much easier!!) and the re-sale value was about 10% what we paid. Total waste of money.
You can get decent stuff second hand as babies grow so quickly.
You do get given a lot.
Baby wipes have distinctive slight smells, depending on the brand. I had postnatal depression and to this day whiffs of certain brands bring back horrible feelings.
Things that other people recommend may not work for you so you could spend a lot on something but rarely use it. Still do the research but buy when you need it.
I tried to get too much in advance and DH actually wanted to go out and buy things when she was born. (It wasn't too real to him before then). We didn't really have money then to 'fritter' (even vouchers went on nappies). I didn't want to take away his pleasure at buying cute stuff for her but it was difficult when I was trying to pay all the bills.