Should I ask my friend to remove my pictures

bagpussbear

Why is this thread suddenly turning to 'stalking'? He is not stalking in my opinion, well at least on the information we have given so far.

If he is facebook friends with the OP's friend, then the photos would simply appear in his newsfeed.

If he went into the friends page to look at photos of the OP, well that's one of the reasons why facebook is there - to catch up on what our mates are doing! People will look at mine, and I look at theirs and that's part of the point of facebook - it's a visual social application.

They say they are still friends, so I don't feel what he is doing is wrong.

But I DO think he has feelings still for her, and I think the OP still cares for him (because she wants to avoid hurt of his feelings, which is admirable). That's why he looks at the photos that pop up - he misses her.

dandelionclock30

I agree with the above, it would have come up most likley on his page. Also who hasnt ever looked up an ex partner or an old friend, work colleague etc on facebook. It doesnt mean to say that person is a stalker!
If people put information in the public domain its there to be seen.

bagpussbear

dandelionclock30 wrote: »

I agree with the above, it would have come up most likley on his page. Also who hasnt ever looked up an ex partner or an old friend, work colleague etc on facebook. It doesnt mean to say that person is a stalker!
If people put information in the public domain its there to be seen.

Exactly, I've done that and I'm no stalker

peachyprice

dandelionclock30 wrote: »

Also who hasnt ever looked up an ex partner or an old friend, work colleague etc on facebook. It doesnt mean to say that person is a stalker!

Erm, me for one.

duchy

peachyprice wrote: »

Erm, me for one.

Never looked for old friends you've lost contact with over the years?
I'd say your in a minority. Most people who use FB have (and if you don't use FB it's not really relevant anyway)