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Should I ask my friend to remove my pictures

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  • This is why I detest FaceBook.
    Don't people want any privacy in their lives any more?
    You only have to watch the Jeremy Kyle Show to see the true value of Facebook.
    Is it just me that knowing when people go to the toilet and eat their dinner totally uninteresting?
    This Society is riddled with surveillance and tracking why add to it?
    If you live by Facebook you die by Facebook.
  • He's already seen the pictures now so what difference would it make? Maybe suggest you delete each other from fb too. Me and my ex are good friends now but deleted eachother off there a while back
  • spacey2012
    spacey2012 Posts: 5,836 Forumite
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    I think you need to sit down and get some advice from someone older and wiser.
    This guy is already stalking your Facebook, this looks like it is going to get rather nasty as you are hanging him on.
    Women do often hang men on as it makes them feel strong or powerful, but many also come very unstuck underestimating men and what they are playing with.
    Get some good advice before this goes serious.
    Be happy...;)
  • DKLS
    DKLS Posts: 13,461 Forumite
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    Is his best friend attractive? If so there is your answer.
  • samtoby
    samtoby Posts: 2,438 Forumite
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    What does it matter if he believes what you say or not -


    unless you want to get back together?
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  • yvonne13_2
    yvonne13_2 Posts: 1,955 Forumite
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    fake_smile wrote: »
    He's already seen the pictures now so what difference would it make? Maybe suggest you delete each other from fb too. Me and my ex are good friends now but deleted eachother off there a while back

    I'm not on FB, I have no profile or account it's my friend that's on there hence him seeing the picture.
    It's better to regret something I did do than to regret something that I didn’t. :EasterBun
  • yvonne13_2
    yvonne13_2 Posts: 1,955 Forumite
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    DKLS wrote: »
    Is his best friend attractive? If so there is your answer.

    His friend is straight
    It's better to regret something I did do than to regret something that I didn’t. :EasterBun
  • peachyprice
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    yvonne13 wrote: »
    I'm not on FB, I have no profile or account it's my friend that's on there hence him seeing the picture.


    Do you not find it somewhat disturbing that he's checking up on what you're doing on your friends FB account?
    Accept your past without regret, handle your present with confidence and face your future without fear
  • aileth
    aileth Posts: 2,822 Forumite
    yvonne13 wrote: »
    I'm not on FB, I have no profile or account it's my friend that's on there hence him seeing the picture.

    So is he friends with your friend on facebook? If not, why is he snooping around your friend's facebook? Sure, if they're friends then the pictures would come up in his newsfeed. If he's not then he's actively gone looking for her, and that is weirdo with a capital 'wuh'.
  • Bazey
    Bazey Posts: 8,230 Forumite
    yvonne13 wrote: »
    from her FB page?

    Loverboy and I decided to part ways two weeks ago due to time constraints ect and we're very happy to remain friends, well that was the case before the pictures surfaced.

    He's just called saying he can't belive that I've moved on and found someone else so quick :eek: I haven't done any such thing. One of my friends posted a few photos on FB of our night out and I just happen to be on three pictures with the same man (random stranger just smilling).

    So my question is can I/should I ask her to take down the three pictures as I don't want my ex upset any more than he already is,or should I just ignore him getting upset because I know I'm innocent of doing anything wrong.

    I have to be honest I wouldn't be happy if it was the other way round, but as I'm not the owner of the photo's what can I do?


    Stalking you on Facebook already? Lucky escape love.

    I would remove him from Facebook and hope that the rest of your friends aren't so quick to jump to conclusions.
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