Official Trying to Conceive - Thread 10

codemonkey

Winner of September BFP predictions: ttc39! :T

October BFPs
Mrs_T_M 10/10/2013 :j
Lara44 18/10/2013 :j

October BFP predictions
glimmerofhope: 3
Mrs_T_M: 4
ThinkPink: 5
bigmomma051204: 6
Disney_Pluto: 6
tia86: 7
MrsMuffin : 7
kellykins: 9
ttc39: 10
ashia: 12

Thread Graduates
Mrs_T_M BFP 10/10/2013

LailaP_2

codemonkey wrote: »

Actually no. It makes me really angry.

Why does it make you angry?

codemonkey

Two week Wait (BFP Hopefuls)
CD?? WillowCat - Awaiting AF :cool:
CD?? Slinky_Selina - Awaiting AF :cool:
CD53 ThinkPink - Awaiting AF :cool:
CD28 lilmissmup - 14DPO :cool:
CD25 glimmerofhope - 13DPO :cool:
CD?? Part Mouse - 12DPO :cool:
CD23 sweaty betty - 11DPO :cool:
CD21 AquamarineMonkey - 8DPO :cool:
CD22 lollypopswater- 6DPO :cool:
CD18 PommeVerte - 4DPO :cool:
CD26 Kellykins - 3DPO :cool:

"If in doubt - BD" Zone
CD92 Lemon Tree - Awaiting ov
CD90 january23- Awaiting ov
CD88 Loulou123 - Awaiting ov
CD68 Skint_Catt - Await:cool:ing ov
CD66 Smookle - Awaiting ov
CD54 Skaps* - Awaiting ov
CD48 any name will suffice - Awaiting ov
CD43 jammy26 - Awaiting ov
CD34 ejecoms - Awaiting ov
CD33 Picklekin - Awaiting ov
CD32 BabyMad* - Awaiting ov
CD29 Angeltreats*- Awaiting ov
CD28 MrsMuffin - Awaiting ov
CD26 chocgirl - Awaiting ov
CD26 ruth26 - Awaiting ov
CD26 Catloverbex - Awaiting ov
CD23 loudfish - Awaiting ov
CD23 cwtw - Awaiting ov
CD23 Loveactually - Awaiting ov
CD22 159 - Awaiting ov
CD19 littleme - Awaiting ov
CD15 ashia - Awaiting ov
CD15 Chocoholic_chick - Awaiting ov
CD15 wangdoodle - Awaiting ov
CD14 Carrot34 - Awaiting ov
CD14 time2deal - Awaiting ov
CD13 claretsgirl - Awaiting ov
CD13 credit_crunch - Awaiting ov
CD13 linz4383 - Awaiting ov
CD13 tia86 - Awaiting ov
CD13 Vesper - Awaiting ov
CD12 bigmomma051204 - Awaiting ov
CD12 cookiee - Awaiting ov
CD12 LailaP - Awaiting ov
CD12 MrsMills1985 - Awaiting ov
CD11 Goodvibes* – Awaiting ov
CD10 Purcy -Awaiting ov
CD9 without-a-paddle - Awaiting ov

"Wine and Chocolate" zone
CD7 Clevernamehere - Awaiting ov
CD7 Tinkwings - Awaiting ov
CD6 ttc39 - Awaiting ov
CD6 menollyke - Awaiting ov
CD5 tea lover - Awaiting ov
CD4 Disney_Pluto - Awaiting ov
CD4 Gelly123 - Awaiting ov
CD3 Codemonkey – Awaiting ov

TCD's own special list
CD30 teaandcakeordeath- Awaiting next step

Those we haven't heard from in a while
paulashek
skintchick
atton
MsTTC
Tashatutuw
KimLouise
Sapphire
Alice31
BeautyButterfly
JoJoB

Those with * sometimes uses conceive plus/preseed.
The names in blue has a link to their Fertility Friend chart.
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codemonkey

LailaP wrote: »

Why does it make you angry?

Because, when it takes forever to get pregnant you get a bit irrational and you start to get a bit irritated. First it's by those stupid mom memes that get posted on facebook, then it's these baby adverts that go on about how wonderful being a parent is and they just remind you that you're not ever going to have a baby. Eventually the sight of a pregnant lady makes you want to burst into tears or push her in front of a train depending on where you are in your cycle.

It's horrible becoming that person, and I really hope none of you get here.

wangdoodle

codemonkey wrote: »

Because, when it takes forever to get pregnant you get a bit irrational and you start to get a bit irritated. First it's by those stupid mom memes that get posted on facebook, then it's these baby adverts that go on about how wonderful being a parent is and they just remind you that you're not ever going to have a baby. Eventually the sight of a pregnant lady makes you want to burst into tears or push her in front of a train depending on where you are in your cycle.

It's horrible becoming that person, and I really hope none of you get here.

Hugs codemonkey I'm so sorry you feel like that, it's horrible.

If it's any consolation, that Johnson's advert really gets up my nose too and I've not been trying very long. And I hate "mumjackers" especially on the book of face, who have to make everything about their successful reproductive status by saying "As a mother...." or "Thinking about my family..." when the subject matter absolutely does not require one to have a fruitful uterus in order to make an informed comment. /rant

codemonkey

Also, I had a dream last night that I had a baby boy. He had dark hair and was kicking his legs and smiling. I knew in the dream that he wasn't real and I was dreaming so I wasn't too upset when I woke up but thinking about it makes me smile.

LailaP_2

codemonkey wrote: »

Because, when it takes forever to get pregnant you get a bit irrational and you start to get a bit irritated. First it's by those stupid mom memes that get posted on facebook, then it's these baby adverts that go on about how wonderful being a parent is and they just remind you that you're not ever going to have a baby. Eventually the sight of a pregnant lady makes you want to burst into tears or push her in front of a train depending on where you are in your cycle.

It's horrible becoming that person, and I really hope none of you get here.

Ahh hugs code, I'm so sorry you are having a carp time. Me wanting to cry at it is because it makes me sad that I don't have don't a baby, I get like that with anything to do with babies.
I never thought TTC would make me so emotional. I usually just get upset rather than angry buy I haven't been trying that long.
One thing that does make me angry though is my step sister who is a complete chav and has had 2 kids she doesn't even seem to like because she just dumps them on everyone else...oh and they were "accidents" too as she loves telling people. Makes my blood boil that someone like that can pop them out any time she wants and can claim benefits etc where as me and hubby have waited until we can afford it and it's not happening as quickly as we had hoped.
Anyway hope I didn't upset anyone

codemonkey

LailaP wrote: »

Ahh hugs code, I'm so sorry you are having a carp time. Me wanting to cry at it is because it makes me sad that I don't have don't a baby, I get like that with anything to do with babies.
I never thought TTC would make me so emotional. I usually just get upset rather than angry buy I haven't been trying that long.
One thing that does make me angry though is my step sister who is a complete chav and has had 2 kids she doesn't even seem to like because she just dumps them on everyone else...oh and they were "accidents" too as she loves telling people. Makes my blood boil that someone like that can pop them out any time she wants and can claim benefits etc where as me and hubby have waited until we can afford it and it's not happening as quickly as we had hoped.
Anyway hope I didn't upset anyone

Oh I have relatives like that. Including one who conceived her child in a pub carpark and needed multiple DNA tests to figure out who the father is. She then had someone else taking care of him most nights and wondered why he wouldn't call her Mummy. Plus my brother who is a bit of a richard head, has loads of children with different women. Whereas I was so careful until I met DH, then we wanted to get the house sorted and get married before we tried. I'm starting to think that the universe hates me.

Lara44

I hated that Johnson's ad too. I found it very upsetting. I think the fetishising of motherhood is not helpful to anyone.

bigmomma051204

Seems like today is a sad day for everyone on here

Hugs to all that need them.

My sad day is because I FINALLY got a OV smiley face yesterday (CD 11) morning only to the be struck down with THE worst sick bug i have ever experienced So DH wouldn't touch me with a bargepole (cant blame him!) even though i was crying and begging (oh the shame!) because we have FINALLY got a positive OV and i wanted SO much to be in the running this month. Feeling slightly better today and part of me wonders whether its worth DTD tonight if I can face it (and if i can convice DH i am better enough!) just in CASE we havent missed the window. Am going to do another of the CB tests today to see if the peak smiley is still there - if it is, then i am gonna assume its still good to go! Probably missed it though which is typical!

*Meant to say - We DTD on Saturday night so i am hoping that some of those little swimmers bedded down for the long haul and MAYBE stayed there for long enough if i have missed the window today