Official Trying to Conceive - Thread 10

Clevernamehere

Hi all, I've been away on hols and frantically catching up at work the last couple of days. Congrats to any bfps I've missed. I came back to new babies everywhere, it's really getting too much.
Fortunately I ov'd while we were away and we managed to dtd 4 times so trying not to get my hopes up for a holiday pregnancy.
Got 21 day bloods tomorrow and oh has his SA this week too - weirdly nervous about that one!

Tia, I think phone appointments are great in theory because you don't have to take time off work but at my surgery they give you a 1 hour window when you might get a phone call so I get really stressed having to find a quiet corner for an hour waiting for the call. That was just for a simple blood test result. Anything more complicated I would definitely make an appointment. I suppose it depends on your work.

Can I be updated to 7DPO please?

bigmomma051204

Cried at hubby earlier. He agreed to go have SA. Booked in for early January. He is fine about it, I am worried - I really don't want it to be him who is the carp one. Even though its a step forward (yes yes - after 3+ years of ttc lol!) I really don't feel positive at all. Think its because i never even got a 2ww this time.

3 years with nothing. It is pathetic really. Yet here i still am!

Feel isolated from family, friends, everyone - am worrying about stupid stuff as well now... hubby has xmas works do on Weds this week - lads night out on the town. I feel like he is going to go out and sleep with someone just to see if he CAN get someone pregnant and assert his manliness. Ridiculous I know. But that is where my head is at, at the moment.

codemonkey

Winner of November BFP predictions: ashia, kellykins, vesper, wangdoodle :T

December BFPs


December BFP predictions
bigmomma051214: 2
Daisiegg: 5
kellykins: 5
Disney_Pluto: 6
ThinkPink: 6
tia: 8

Thread Graduates
Mrs_T_M BFP 10/10/2013
Lara44 BFP 18/10/2013
glimmerofhope BFP 24/10/2013
catlovebex BFP 25/10/2013
Aquamarinemonkey BFP 01/11/2013
PommeVerte BFP 01/11/2013
claretsgirl BFP 09/11/2013
MrsMuffin BFP 09/11/2013
wangdoodle 15/11/2013
skintchick 19/11/2013
menollyke 22/11/2013

codemonkey

Two week Wait (BFP Hopefuls)
CD93 ThinkPink - Awaiting AF :cool:
CD27 Frankieloo - Awaiting AF :cool:
CD52 paulashek - 37PO :cool:
CD44 Disney_Pluto - 23DPO :cool:
CD?? ejecoms - 20DPO :cool:
CD29 ashia - 13DPO :cool:
CD21 Clevernamehere - 7DPO :cool:
CD24 Purcy -7DPO :cool:
CD21 Tinkwings - 6DPO :cool:
CD32 time2deal - 6DPO :cool:
CD21 credit_crunch - 5DPO :cool:
CD19 lilmissmup - 4DPO :cool:
CD30 Kellykins - 1DPO :cool:

"If in doubt - BD" Zone
CD94 Skaps* - Awaiting ov
CD73 BabyMad* - Awaiting ov
CD63 159 - Awaiting ov
CD59 littleme - Awaiting ov
CD54 Carrot34 - Awaiting ov
CD49 without-a-paddle - Awaiting ov
CD45 Princess Kate - Awaiting ov
CD45 tea lover - Awaiting ov
CD43 Codemonkey – Awaiting ov
CD38 Picklekin - Awaiting ov
CD38 ruth26 - Awaiting ov
CD35 chocgirl - Awaiting ov
CD33 cwtw - Awaiting ov
CD33 cookiee - Awaiting ov
CD32 loudfish - Awaiting ov
CD26 bigmomma051204 - Awaiting ov
CD26 Chocoholic_chick - Awaiting ov
CD26 MrsMills1985 - Awaiting ov
CD24 Goodvibes* – Awaiting ov
CD19 Vesper - Awaiting ov
CD18 linz4383 - Awaiting ov
CD18 tia86 - Awaiting ov
CD18 ttc39 - Awaiting ov
CD16 any name will suffice - Awaiting ov
CD15 Gelly123 - Awaiting ov
CD12 DanielleNic87 - Awaiting ov
CD10 lollypopswater- Awaiting ov
CD9 sweaty betty - Awaiting ov
CD8 daisiegg - Awaiting ov
CD8 alipops1986 - Awaiting ov

"Wine and Chocolate" zone
CD5 LailaP - Awaiting ov
CD3 Keepergirl - Awaiting ov

Those we haven't heard from in a while
Smookle
Skint_Catt
Slinky_Selina
WillowCat
Loulou123
january23
Lemon Tree
atton
MsTTC
Tashatutuw
KimLouise
Sapphire
Alice31
BeautyButterfly
JoJoB

Those with * sometimes uses conceive plus/preseed.
The names in blue has a link to their Fertility Friend chart.
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Frankieloo

I'm going to be optimistic and go for a prediction of 8 christmas BFPs keeping everything crossed for everyone!

Big hugs bigmomma - completely understandable to feel that way even though the idea itself is ridiculous. Good that he is gonna get checked. At least then you'll know.

daisiegg

Sending hugs bigmomma. It is crazy how our minds work, isn't it? I'm sure your husband is no more likely to do that than you are likely to go out and sleep with a random man to try and get pregnant and prove your femininity! But of course our worries and fears are never rational I hope you feel better x

cwtw

Morning all and a big Christmas hug for everyone,

Please can I be updated to cd5

Please can I guess 6 bfps this month. Let's hoe we all get the best Christmas present ever!

jay20043

Hi to everyone,

Not much is happening here at the moment. Currently in the 2ww. I think I'm 9 dpo, I was thinking of doing a test as I have 2 xmas parties to go to this week. I know it wont show anything though.

Hugs to everyone who needs them.

LailaP_2

Morning all
Please can I guess 7 BFP for December
Been feeling really fed up since AF arrived. It's just so depressing that we waited so long getting everything in place to be in a good position to start trying and now we are trying it looks like there will be problems if I continue to have a pathetic 7 day LP!
I started taking Agnus Cactus and B6 on CD1. AF was short so gone but my boob pain is still here and worse if anything and this is really getting me down and making me worry what could be wrong.
I've got the doctors on Wednesday about the boobs and I'm going to mention the short LP (pretty sure this has been happenin
g every month) and the short cycles and see if it's all related.
Also love that my Facebook news feed is showing pregnancy announcements of people I don't even know!! !!!!!!!!??

shrimpy_80

Hi everyone, I confess i have been lurking for a little while and wonder if it would be ok to join you? OH and I have been TTC since we got married in August and were NTNP for a couple of months before that. We are on our fifth cycle of 'properly' trying.

I am used the FF app but not temping or anything atm, thinking of starting OPKs in the new year so will no doubt have lots of questions! I was diagnosed with cervical cancer last year and eventually had my cervix removed so we are hoping that hasn't caused any other problems, fingers crossed the consultant is happy so far. I am CD8 today.

Hope that isn't too much for a first post and that I have my acronyms correct Thanks for having me!