If you only knew how much you have helped me

millionairejnr76

Hi welcome im a lurker too, not in debt but a lurker, i feared registering but im over it hope your live gets better ps. no debt cos i live with my parents

southernscouser

icka wrote: »

If you only knew how much you have helped me

You could always show your gratitude by sending some money to PO Box SS.



But seriously, well done for coming out so to speak and good luck for the future. Hope to see you posting more on the board! :beer:

Crown

hey, thanks for posting. I hope that you now will post more and nt be afraid to share your hints and tips. just think of all the other lurkers who you will help and inspire
Even though I joined the site back in 04 originally I have only been posting on here properly for around 8 Months and the stress relief the site offers is incredible.

Wish you all the best on the rest of your DFW Journey

Karmacat

Hi Icka
Glad to see you posting.... I lurked too for a few months before posting, was fascinated by what I read. And then went on to start to post a little bit. Its different, I really like it, I still love people's stories, like you do, and I'm a visible little bit part of it too now, the community here, which is wonderful.

bandraoi

If you are in London, H&M Knightsbridge is your friend.

Sea78

Hi- can't believe I missed your post yesterday!

Welcome to the board finally - I too lurked for a while before first posting and I agree, it's wonderful havin the support of a whole group of wonderful people who are there for you in the ups and downs. I only had to ask for a little hug the oter day and got so much support, it truely lifted me out of a bad patch

Look forward to seeing more from you!
Sea xxx

ps (whispers now) I have found 3 chest hairs recently - I am a woman!!!!AND only 28 lol. Perhaps this is the downward spiral to hairy old women??:rotfl:

pps And if anyone was wondering why I would post that - reread OP's post!!

GreenNinja

Hi Icka,

It made me feel really sad listening to your story, but it sounds like your life is on the turn and can only get better.

Sounds like you are more positive already and getting your life back on track, good on you girl, keep your head high and keep positive, you will sort everything out eventually I have no doubt about it.

Big hugs to you,

XXX

hypno06

Sea78 wrote: »

ps (whispers now) I have found 3 chest hairs recently - I am a woman!!!!AND only 28 lol. Perhaps this is the downward spiral to hairy old women??:rotfl:

pps And if anyone was wondering why I would post that - reread OP's post!!

:eek: :eek: :eek:

Head over to the freebies board Sea for the free razors :rotfl:

icka

Oh wow, thank you so much for your lovely replies, they made me cry. The people who I have being reading with the greatest interest are the ones who replied. wow what a lovely feeling

. I'm sitting here on my couch "working from home". Had another really really bad day yesterday. keep fighting with my OH, bless him he's lovely just want to be on my own. Feel like I'm being smothered, think im just so down that the thought of sleeping with him makes me feel awful.

Thank you for all your lovely advice, I will do a SOA when I get a chance. I have to do 2 telephone interviews first withsome mad German's. Not that Germans are mad i like Germans, just these two are really odd, some might say special:rotfl: I'm sorry if I have offended any Germans out there.

Anyway sometimes my job can be funny, I'm a corporate recruiter, so if anyone needs any help with interview tips, help with CV's etc I would be more than happy to help. I can interview anyone from a surgeon to a sales engineer, right across the board. Please use me. Most interviews are competancy based so its greats to have the heads up on what they will ask before you go in.

Sea I love you thank you for saying that about the hair I thought I was the only one - its so funny.

Anyway you lot have given me the strenght to get up shower and get to work (in the actual office) good thing about recruiting internationally you do alot of interviews over the phone so they cant see that you are sitting with a panda face as you couldn't be arsed taking off yesterdays make up and you have a snotty nose from crying.

Oh yea OH birthday today we are going to the comedy club, not really in the mood, need to make the effort - nothing fits me, and I really dont want to go. Shut up girl stop feeling sorry for yourself, get up have a shower, talk to some mad Germans and go to work.

Do you think I can ask a random stupid question to cheer myself up and put them off. LIke how do you feel about vanilla ice cream. and if they say what I could just say I was checking their level of everyday English. that might be fun:T

Oh you lot I have some interviews to conduct, then I have to wash myself horray I hear you say, :T Then I'm going to pluck up the courage to go to work, then Im going to go and laugh at a comedy and probably going to have to have sex. Well it is his birthday, oh the joys.

Thats reallyunfair I used to love sex, now the thoughts of it make me want to run very far away, I feel like crap. No its ok it wont last that long anyway:rotfl: it will be fine:rotfl: oh Im so bold.

Ok got to go see you later

Thanks again you have made my day:A

Snaggles

Hi Icka :wave:

Yes, go on, ask them about vanilla ice cream.....in fact that's maybe a bit too easy....ask how they feel about pomegranate sorbet!

You mentioned about the sex thing.....it could be because you are feeling down in other areas of your life that you are not feeling the 'urges' - I know when I'm stressed/unhappy, the last thing I want is to be prodded and poked (if you'll pardon the expression lol), in fact sometimes I don't really like to be touched at all, even affectionately. It doesn't make you abnormal, and I wouldn't worry about it, but if it is bothering you, maybe have a chat to your GP about it.

I hope you have fun at the comedy club, sometimes they have some really good comedians on (and sometimes some not so good ones, but you can still laugh at how crap they are). Laughing together is a lovely way of feeling close to a loved one.

Take care and have a nice day xxx