Lenny v the girls (+ Z, lmw and James) challenge lose the fat and the debt

Snaggles · 3 July 2007 at 10:02PM

I'd love to be a stay at home Mum if I'm honest. Looking after a baby takes up a lot of time, so I'm only ever bored when she falls asleep. But once she starts going to nursery/school, I couldn't possibly just sit at home twiddling my thumbs all day, I'd be so lonely.

Don't worry too much about not understanding the references to sex in other peoples conversations, or being more innocent than the people you work with - be your own person, follow your own path.

postingalwaysposting · 3 July 2007 at 10:03PM

Snaggles wrote: »

Oooh, if you felt like you were talked out of it, and still want to do it, that means it must really be right for you! Is it the maths course? For the record, I always thought you should do it.

nah not talked out of it but lead a different way i have waited 3 years to be in the position finance wise and job wise to do this and i dont want to wait till october and think i really should have done that... my outlook and desires from the old thread have really changed and i believe what i want now i want forever, i know people have the best intetions for me in rl and on here but at the end of the day i am young and although i dont want to make mistakes thats part of growing up... i dont want to have to come on here every year and check with everyone i am doing the correct thing (i aint leaving btw). I have an old head on my sholders (been told many a time) but still have a young outlook on life, i can tell you now i still feel as though i am 18. Its teh same with this weight loss, for the first time in my whole life i have wanted to do this for me and finally i am losing weight (albit slowly) everytime i was losing weight for someone else (mum, bullys, father, church) i would put it on... i have chnged so much :rolleyes:

anyways enough about me and back to the task in hand :T

postingalwaysposting · 3 July 2007 at 10:08PM

Snaggles wrote: »

I'd love to be a stay at home Mum if I'm honest. Looking after a baby takes up a lot of time, so I'm only ever bored when she falls asleep. But once she starts going to nursery/school, I couldn't possibly just sit at home twiddling my thumbs all day, I'd be so lonely.

Don't worry too much about not understanding the references to sex in other peoples conversations, or being more innocent than the people you work with - be your own person, follow your own path.

oh no i am not saying mums are lazy far from it, they are great and do a fantastic job i just cant see me being one ever, if i adopt they will be in child care, i know it sounds harsh but i just cant see me being one :rotfl:

thanks hun, I supposed i feel a little pushed out and also i would do/say inocent things and its taken the wrong way as i dont understand then they all laugh at me but i aint changing that for nothing

i am trying... i dont 'like' men at the moment people think i am strange but why rush into a relationship that you dont want

i am happy being little old me for now