What would you do?

paulineb_2

Kabazzzz wrote: »

Ok well I've opened the final message - I say final as she has blocked me I'm guessing as it has a note saying that I can't reply - it is more of the same... with the added line about how mature she has been in coming to me directly!?!

Ignore. I would just ignore.

If you get any trouble from the sister, your workmate, deal with it through official channels if you need to

But this, sounds like someone has had one too many sherries and just talking nonsense

peachyprice

Ah, I see.

Kabazzzz

flashg67 wrote: »

Hmmm, skinny with big boobs....got a pic?

That's just it Flash... I'd be well chuffed if that was said about me!!:rotfl:

aileth

Either workmate has a deluded plan or sister is psycho-loco and has you terribly confused. This is bizarro! I wonder how she was expecting you to react?!

paulineb_2

Im quite sure the sister has something to do with it, as how would this girl know your name, but you have her measure, shes probably hoping you'll make a fuss about it, I wouldnt give her the satisfaction.

sassyblue

I would have replied that l know what she is referring to as you heard the same comment mentioned but you did not make the comment and were not involved in the conversation at all, just overheard it.

aileth

Shame she blocked you, I would've been tempted to respond, "Damn it to hell, and I would've gotten away with it too if it wasn't for those pesky kids!" And maybe a picture of dramatic gopher for effect.

paulineb_2

sassyblue wrote: »

I would have replied that l know what she is referring to as you heard the same comment mentioned but you did not make the comment and were not involved in the conversation at all, just overheard it.

Id say nothing, its none of her business, if someone who I didnt know messaged me on fb giving me jip, theyd be told where to go.

Shes not responsible for some bloke making a comment about the size of someones boobs, my goodness the conversations Ive witnessed at work and not taken part in, why should she be upset just because she happened to be standing in the same room

Its ridiculous from start to finish and I understand why its worrying as the sister doesnt sound nice to work with, but seriously this rubbish isnt worth wasting one nano second over

Anyone giving me grief on fb, blocked, instantly

Kabazzzz

paulineb wrote: »

Im quite sure the sister has something to do with it, as how would this girl know your name, but you have her measure, shes probably hoping you'll make a fuss about it, I wouldnt give her the satisfaction.

Yeah I'm pretty sure it's originated from the sister (my colleague) but I also agree with you paulineb that work are unlikely to take me seriously as it is such school ground behaviour.

I have printed the messages so will keep them safe just in case anything further happens, in work or out of work.

I'm only in that team until the end of September and then I return to my old post - at this rate, the sooner the better.

Maybe I'll give her a really mundane job to do on Monday morning

Funky_Bold_Ribena

Ask her to get you a skinny latte and 2 big doughnuts.

Anyway - are you 100% sure it's the sister? Sounds like an alter ego to me.