Clicking Expired Instead Of PMing A BG For A Merge?

fire**fly

Daphne01 wrote: »

I only send to Glad or Dalkirst for anything, just as weeowens says no offense intended but they do get done that way

I've no idea whether Diva is actively Bging so it's just simpler that way.
Not official as far as I'm aware though

thanks daphne,
no offence intended either to anyone
i'm not asking who send merge requests to who &
who prefers to send merge requests to which particular BG, i'm asking Glad/Dalkirst

are we to send Mrs Tine & Diva pm's for merges
as i'm not sure wether it's just you Glad & Dalkirst or all of you.

if they prefer not to answer fair enough
but it still leaves the question unanswered wether to bother sending request to diva/mrs tine.

x

Blulu

Hi Guys, I have a sneaky suspicion that Glad and Dalkirst may not be comfortable speaking on behalf of Mrs T, and Divadee, which when I think about it, makes sense.

I have just sent a pm to MrsTine and Divadee pointing them to this thread and to Firefly's post #104, which asked straight out whether we should/should not pm them.

I also said that if they prefer not to respond, I will assume they have their reasons and will hope that it will be sorted at some point.

Finally, I told them I would mention this here - which is what I'm doing now

Hopefully, they will come here when they next log on and will say whether they want us to contact them for Competition issues or not. If they don't, well...what else can we do?

Blu X

Luckyone

It's the most simple question Fire**fly is not asking for the people's life story just weather they are BG's on the comp board

It really sums up what has been the problem & that is lack of communication

xxx

Luckyone

Blulu wrote: »

Hi Guys, I have a sneaky suspicion that Glad and Dalkirst may not be comfortable speaking on behalf of Mrs T, and Divadee, which when I think about it, makes sense.

I have just sent a pm to MrsTine and Divadee pointing them to this thread and to Firefly's post #104, which asked straight out whether we should/should not pm them.

I also said that if they prefer not to respond, I will assume they have their reasons and will hope that it will be sorted at some point.

Finally, I told them I would mention this here - which is what I'm doing now

Hopefully, they will come here when they next log on and will say whether they want us to contact them for Competition issues or not. If they don't, well...what else can we do?

Blu X

This is what I do not understand Blulu

We are not asking about the people's life story, we don't want to know why they are or aren't BGing for the comp section. We just want a list of user names & yes or no

Thank You Blu for going to the trouble of Pming the people involved & asking them for us, but once again this is what the BG's should be doing themself

xxx

Blulu

Lord, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
The courage to change the things I can,
And enough wisdom to know the difference.

Now then, if I wasn't an atheist, that might actually be helpful

Luckyone

Blulu wrote: »

Lord, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
The courage to change the things I can,
And enough wisdom to know the difference.

Now then, if I wasn't an atheist, that might actually be helpful

:rotfl:

:T

fire**fly

Blulu wrote: »

Hi Guys, I have a sneaky suspicion that Glad and Dalkirst may not be comfortable speaking on behalf of Mrs T, and Divadee, which when I think about it, makes sense.

I have just sent a pm to MrsTine and Divadee pointing them to this thread and to Firefly's post #104, which asked straight out whether we should/should not pm them.

I also said that if they prefer not to respond, I will assume they have their reasons and will hope that it will be sorted at some point.

Finally, I told them I would mention this here - which is what I'm doing now

Hopefully, they will come here when they next log on and will say whether they want us to contact them for Competition issues or not. If they don't, well...what else can we do?

Blu X

thank you blu :A
I did think about pm'ing diva & mrs tine but didn't sorry :sad:
& you're right, it's not glads/dalkirsts place to speak on behalf of them, thinking about the situation I should have done what you've done as that's all i'm asking,
I just think it's unfair on members that aren't aware of the situation spending time sending merges to a bg if they're not going to do the merge &/or aren't bg'ing :sad: x

ab.da54

Would you be willing to take on the role of BG, Luckyone?

Luckyone

ab.da54 wrote: »

Would you be willing to take on the role of BG, Luckyone?

Well that question took me by surprise

No because it would frustrate me more than I already am now, if the rules are the BG's don't communicate with the members of the forum then I could not stand not helping if that makes any sense

Plus I am a total nightmare where technology is involved I would make a complete mess of the place in one day :rotfl:

xxx

Blulu

fire**fly wrote: »

thank you blu :A
I did think about pm'ing diva & mrs tine but didn't sorry :sad:
& you're right, it's not glads/dalkirsts place to speak on behalf of them, thinking about the situation I should have done what you've done as that's all i'm asking,
I just think it's unfair on members that aren't aware of the situation spending time sending merges to a bg if they're not going to do the merge &/or aren't bg'ing :sad: x

Nah, no sorry needed. I hesitated for all the same reasons you did. In the end I just thought - stuff it (or words to that effect). You and Moneybot asked the right question - needed asking hun :A

Blu X