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I think I just attract people that treat me badly, does anyone else feel that way?

PoppingCandy · 2013-07-15 12:38:15

I am fed up with it. I've posted before about having problems with my DH and family, all of whom don't treat me brilliantly. And in addition to this I seem to attract friends that don't treat me well and are frenemies. I don't know if this is because I'm a bad judge of character, but I just seem to attract bullies and…

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NWOIHTS Posts: 188 Forumite

18 July 2013 at 8:28PM

I think you have to have boundaries with people and lay them down when people step over the mark. I used to always shy away from conflict and let people walk all over me and try and put words into my mouth and form opinions that are theirs but try and flog them off as mine.

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