shaking like hell!

ecogirl1

i got in the car willingly thinking we were going to get chips and that is it im not sure if i get in willingly they class it as abduction maybe they do?! i am scared because i left him due to domestic abuse and he already has a few charges against him and with this on top it may be what sends him down.
he needs help i think the children where blissfully unaware i will see in the morning thank you all so much for getting through tonight i prob wont sleep but i am going to try xx

ecogirl1

the children i took straight to bed and they are fast asleep thank god! my family are close but my mother is in hospital with cancer and my father and sister will be so tired if i ring tonight i couldn't put my father through it- however he will have to know but the added worry on his shoulders i am dreading it thank you so much and i promise i will ring even though the last thing i want to do is get him into trouble i will have to do it for the kids, he needs help he rang my phone but i didn't dare answer i hope he got home safe his driving was a little scarey.
jsut checked i have a voicemail but can't listen to it as i have no credit.

rablovesroo wrote: »

My husband is a police officer and he has told me to tell you to please phone the police right now and ring a family member or friend to come and sit with you and support you and your children.

I wish you all the best, I really do xxx

Own_My_Own

ecogirl1 wrote: »

i got in the car willingly thinking we were going to get chips and that is it im not sure if i get in willingly they class it as abduction maybe they do?! i am scared because i left him due to domestic abuse and he already has a few charges against him and with this on top it may be what sends him down.
he needs help i think the children where blissfully unaware i will see in the morning thank you all so much for getting through tonight i prob wont sleep but i am going to try xx

It doesn't matter that you got in the car willingly. He didn't take you to get chips, to took you down county lanes and scared the hell out of you.

eta please ring the police. They can't help you if they don't know.

ecogirl1

rang 101 and they are coming out tomorrow to talk to me have calmed down now i have told someone i pray he gets the help he needs now.

angiesandhu

My goodness, that is awful. I am glad you called the police. Let us know what they say. I hope the little ones are ok in the morning. I think it's best not to make too much of it in front of them (if possible?)

xx

Ps, I hope he gets some help and realises that he needs it.

ecogirl1

im just sorry it will be sunday and they will be here at home when the police come round that i didnt want will ask my sister to look after them while they are here! i will let you know what they say x

princesssmithee

must have been terrifying! glad your all safe. x x x

gerimc

Honey, you said you dont want to get him into trouble, but by going to the police you will be helping him, because he will get the help he needs and maybe be sectioned which is the best thing. You have to think about yourself and the kids, I've been there and trust me I understand fully what you are going through. Get your family to help, they love you and will support you. Hugs and kisses xxxx

ecogirl1

had the most lovely police lady come round this morning turns out she went to convent school with my sisters! anyway it has been reported and is on file i asked for him not to get into trouble and she has asked me to try and talk to him and convince him he needs help i will leave it a day and call him and try and talk to him i have to say though i have tried this many times before i hope this time it works x thank you all for your help last night i did eventually get some sleep! x

toniq

Sadly I have a very dear friend who is very ill, he often hears voices and is convinced everyone is talking about him even total strangers, unless he admits he has a problem and asks for help he wont get help, I had to remove a noose he had in his house as I was so worried about him using it.

Care in the communtiy is non exsistent and the system is failing so many.

Please put yourself and your children first and seek help from Womensaid or refuge, It doesn't matter however many times you turn to them.

x