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Etiquette/presents for 1 year olds.

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  • balletshoes
    balletshoes Posts: 16,610 Forumite
    itzmee wrote: »
    How about some bath toys, you can't really go wrong with them - unless they don't have a bath of course ;)

    great idea - my toddler would play for hours in the bath with floating bath toys, stuck-to the wall water wheels, those little squishy bath animals which you can squirt water from, jugs, plastic cups, my niece has some really cute bath flutes too :D.
  • skintchick
    skintchick Posts: 15,114 Forumite
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    Definitely take a gift, and as others have said, no soft toys!

    My (childless) brother bought my 3yo DD a 5ft high stuffed giraffe for Christmas. It is huge and useless although she does actually love it but I still wish he'd spent the money (a lot of money!) on something else. Or asked me what she'd like. It could have gone towards a playhouse which is something she REALLY wants.

    Honestly, a 5ft high giraffe!
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  • Person_one
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    skintchick wrote: »
    Definitely take a gift, and as others have said, no soft toys!

    My (childless) brother bought my 3yo DD a 5ft high stuffed giraffe for Christmas. It is huge and useless although she does actually love it but I still wish he'd spent the money (a lot of money!) on something else. Or asked me what she'd like. It could have gone towards a playhouse which is something she REALLY wants.

    Honestly, a 5ft high giraffe!

    She loves it though, and he clearly loves her. Its a story to tell if nothing else...
  • skintchick
    skintchick Posts: 15,114 Forumite
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    Person_one wrote: »
    She loves it though, and he clearly loves her. Its a story to tell if nothing else...

    I know. And I found a space for it in her room, but I had to prise it away from my Dad (favourite animal is apparentl giraffe although who knew?) who had given it a name and everything...

    Maybe it's just me who doesn;t like it.
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  • lostinrates
    lostinrates Posts: 55,283 Forumite
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    I think I might quite want a five feet tall giraffe actually...
  • CH27
    CH27 Posts: 5,531 Forumite
    I started buying for my close friends children from birth.
    At one point I was buying for 14 children.

    If I had my time over again I wouldn't buy for any of them. It's cost me a fortune over the years.
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  • LannieDuck
    LannieDuck Posts: 2,359 Forumite
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    I agree with those who say to take a small present in place of a card. You shouldn't need to spend more than £5 - you'll be able to find a nice board book for that.

    Perhaps consider something for 2 year olds rather than 1 year olds? They probably have lots of books for their current age group, but few to 'grow into'.

    If it helps, my LO is coming up to 2 now, and likes the Tiger who came to tea, Zog, the Gruffalo, Spot books (books with flaps are a big favourite!), and she also loves the tiny little books you can get that are child-sized.
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  • neverdespairgirl
    neverdespairgirl Posts: 16,501 Forumite
    My son never liked soft toys - he was actively scared of a teddy that my best mate bought him, and ignored the rest. He did sometimes go to sleep with a (very hard and nobbly) Thomas the Tank Engine clutched to his breast, though!
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  • Bella73
    Bella73 Posts: 547 Forumite
    Flumina wrote: »
    I'm in a similar situation, except I'll be buying for a two-year-old girl.

    I am wondering about things like summer clothes, sun hats, things like that that they might need (should we get a summer this year :laugh:)

    Or bath toys/toys for the paddling pool?

    It doesn't need to cost much, but personally I would buy something rather than go empty-handed :)

    We always used to go down the PJ route as all the children I know wear pyjamas and you get them a little bit bigger so they will grow into them too but can wear them straight away if they want to if you know what I mean.
  • Bella73
    Bella73 Posts: 547 Forumite
    CH27 wrote: »
    I started buying for my close friends children from birth.
    At one point I was buying for 14 children.

    If I had my time over again I wouldn't buy for any of them. It's cost me a fortune over the years.

    You do have to be careful about falling into this trap too!:eek:
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