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The OS Doorstep - a helpful and supportive thread in these tough times

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  • stiltwalker
    stiltwalker Posts: 1,319 Forumite
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    Sorry Kidcat - totally self absorbed there - what a rotten thing to happen, give your arthritic old friend a hug from me and I hope you are not too badly shaken - Hx
  • gran3
    gran3 Posts: 247 Forumite
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    We are all here for you, to vent, rage, cry, whatever.
  • kidcat
    kidcat Posts: 6,058 Forumite
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    OH stiltwalker how awful, it sounds very like my uncle who passed a couple of years ago, very similar in that they were initially optimistic but then operated to clear bowel and the news was bad, he managed less than a week after that. I hope DH can be persuaded to stay, as long as your mum can help you, in the long run it will help him grieve.
  • Softstuff
    Softstuff Posts: 3,086 Forumite
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    I'm so sorry Stiltwalker. Sending all my love.
    Softstuff- Officially better than 007
  • SDG31000
    SDG31000 Posts: 1,009 Forumite
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    I am so sorry to hear your news Stiltwalker

    My offer for a room/place to rest/meals stands. Just let me know if it's needed.


    Love to you all xxxx
  • stiltwalker
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    Kidcat - DH is going to stay a few days - its was my dad I was hoping could be persuaded to stay rather than turning round and driving straight back. X
  • kidcat
    kidcat Posts: 6,058 Forumite
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    That's good stiltwalker, sorry I misread it.
  • silvasava
    silvasava Posts: 4,433 Forumite
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    Stiltwalker - so sorry that the news about MiL is not what you had hoped for. You and your family are in my thoughts.
    Small victories - sometimes they are all you can hope for but sometimes they are all you need - be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle
  • CRANKY40
    CRANKY40 Posts: 5,920 Forumite
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    Sorry to hear about your MIL Stilty. I wish I was close enough to help out but by the time I managed to reach anywhere near your house it would be time to turn round and come home for the school run. I hope Granny Stiltwaker can be kept comfortable and pain free.
  • nursemaggie
    nursemaggie Posts: 2,608 Forumite
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    So sorry to hear the news Stilty. Maybe this is the kinder way for your MIL. I hope for your fathers sake he will at least stay over night it is a long way to do the journey both ways. We are all thinking of you.

    Kidcat hugs. I know what can happen with these sort of things it hits you later. Give your dog a hug from me too. I have only ever had one dog and she saved us from being burgles more than a few times. They have no consideration these garages I know you car is like out legs to the rest of us.

    SQ I think I am in need of a like minded friend pity we are so far apart.
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