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I amm pregnant - i need advice on ESA

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  • Troutwrestler
    Troutwrestler Posts: 350 Forumite
    MoreRosey wrote: »
    Troutwrestler,

    It is so sad I am being misunderstood. Have you read my first post?

    Am I posting, I want this, I want that?

    All I am asking am I entitled to more benefits? It is a normal question that women (single/married/working/non-working ask when they are pregnant. And as I have read somewhere that pregnant women can get esa, I wanted to ask this forum the same thing. I also posted that I want to get back to work . How come you missed that ?? I have had worked for ten years and paid my full tax. Why am I being misunderstood? I don`t like being misuderstood. So what if there was a support system to get me back to work - be it esa or other working programmes - at least I will be in the work front. I don`t have a history of being on benefits so obviously if people like you misjudge me and get all personal - I will make the time to set you guys right and if you still prefer to misunderdstand me and get all personal - well you are wasting your time. I am in this forum because I wanted to collate useful information.

    Paying tax doesn't in some magical way make you entitled to claim benefits because you don't know how birth control works....I can only assume this is the reason your pregnant....surely no one would choose to have a child when they can't afford childcare for the one they already have.

    Although you are a very obvious wind up..so really I'm wasting my time....
    Its all mind over matter. I don't mind and you don't matter:rotfl:
  • Troutwrestler
    Troutwrestler Posts: 350 Forumite
    MoreRosey wrote: »
    Addios.

    I take I you mean adios?

    Looks like someone does need to go back to school....to learn their Spanish :p
    Its all mind over matter. I don't mind and you don't matter:rotfl:
  • Poppie68
    Poppie68 Posts: 4,881 Forumite
    Tenth Anniversary Combo Breaker
    MoreRosey wrote: »
    Anyways, I will talk to a professional advisor who will extend my knowledge of ESA and they will advise whether ESA is of a beneficial aid for me to find work.Back to school was for two posters who posted their opinion of me saying not so nice things - or simply asking me questions when they should have been answering my questions neutrally. Anyways I came on this forum for advice and guidance and information which alot of posters gave. Having to deal with those who were spiting me, was not expected. This is my first post and I am sure that many of you come on this benefits forum regularly and some of you were not nice and then your cages rattled when I responded to your not so nice messages!!! My goal is to do better for myself and family and I will get there and if many have an issue about me claiming benefits, well many of have had benefits when you have been working or not - i really don`t appreciate hypocrites. This particular post is for those who have painted a false picture of me.Addios.



    Many posters have been trying to tell you that ESA is not a benefit you will be able to claim just because you are pregnant.. Esa is granted to SOME pregnant ladies who have been working but are too ill to continue work.
    Good look with the professional advisor anyway...maybe you should of started there in the first place.
  • Troutwrestler
    Troutwrestler Posts: 350 Forumite
    Poppie68 wrote: »
    Many posters have been trying to tell you that ESA is not a benefit you will be able to claim just because you are pregnant.. Esa is granted to SOME pregnant ladies who have been working but are too ill to continue work.
    Good look with the professional advisor anyway...maybe you should of started there in the first place.

    Lets hope they tell the OP what she wants to hear...or they might be told to go back to school :rotfl:
    Its all mind over matter. I don't mind and you don't matter:rotfl:
  • Poppie68
    Poppie68 Posts: 4,881 Forumite
    Tenth Anniversary Combo Breaker
    Don't the Trolls know that when they keep posting under new names, they get sussed because their arrogance does'nt take long to show through.
  • MoreRosey
    MoreRosey Posts: 30 Forumite
    I take I you mean adios?

    Looks like someone does need to go back to school....to learn their Spanish :p

    I don`t mind learning spanish :)

    By the way I added that I had paid taxes too, to simmer those people who went to the boiling point. People have had lived from my taxes which I paid when I was working without claiming benefits. That did not make me spiteful.

    Why are you so against me ? What have I done to you?
  • MoreRosey
    MoreRosey Posts: 30 Forumite
    Poppie68 wrote: »
    Many posters have been trying to tell you that ESA is not a benefit you will be able to claim just because you are pregnant.. Esa is granted to SOME pregnant ladies who have been working but are too ill to continue work.
    Good look with the professional advisor anyway...maybe you should of started there in the first place.

    okay okay :-)
  • Troutwrestler
    Troutwrestler Posts: 350 Forumite
    MoreRosey wrote: »
    I don`t mind learning spanish :)

    By the way I added that I had paid taxes too, to simmer those people who went to the boiling point. People have had lived from my taxes which I paid when I was working without claiming benefits. That did not make me spiteful.

    Why are you so against me ? What have I done to you?

    Against you?

    :rotfl:

    I'm against idiotic question posed by trolls with nothing better to do.

    That's my last bite. It's all a bit boring now tbh
    Its all mind over matter. I don't mind and you don't matter:rotfl:
  • MoreRosey
    MoreRosey Posts: 30 Forumite
    Against you?

    :rotfl:

    I'm against idiotic question posed by trolls with nothing better to do.

    That's my last bite. It's all a bit boring now tbh

    Yes, I should not waste time with replies associating with trolls.
  • scootw1
    scootw1 Posts: 2,165 Forumite
    MoreRosey wrote: »
    Anyways, I will talk to a professional advisor who will extend my knowledge of ESA and they will advise whether ESA is of a beneficial aid for me to find work.Back to school was for two posters who posted their opinion of me saying not so nice things - or simply asking me questions when they should have been answering my questions neutrally. Anyways I came on this forum for advice and guidance and information which alot of posters gave. Having to deal with those who were spiting me, was not expected. This is my first post and I am sure that many of you come on this benefits forum regularly and some of you were not nice and then your cages rattled when I responded to your not so nice messages!!! My goal is to do better for myself and family and I will get there and if many have an issue about me claiming benefits, well many of have had benefits when you have been working or not - i really don`t appreciate hypocrites. This particular post is for those who have painted a false picture of me.Addios.

    Did you try the link I gave you in my earlier post? That should tell you all you need. I may be wrong but I don't think just receiving esa is to help you get back into work. I believe there are support groups for that
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