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Every Little Inspirational Thought Evokes (Savings)

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  • savingbabs
    savingbabs Posts: 1,733 Forumite
    Evening all, big day today - got my PhD!!
    SPC 2015: #319 £10.65 / £500 Bulgaria tin
  • lutzi1 wrote: »
    Evening all, RL has kept me away over the weekend, but I've just tuned in to catch up and saw this.

    Squills, as you know I live in a similar family situation to you. I've always had the thought in the back of my mind throughout our marriage that someday we would just need to grab our passports and head for the airport - some day that day will probably come. Having said that, I've also got an elderly relative I do some caring for who has had a stroke, and they come in a really broad spectrum of severity.

    My own take on the situation for what it's worth is

    a) Be really kind and understanding towards your wife, she'll probably feel awful about not being there and rather helpless.

    b) Now is not a good moment to quibble about expense.

    c) I'd personally suggest to your wife that the best thing is not to swamp the MIL and the family over there at this stage, especially as you don't know exactly what is what, but you completely understand if she wants to go over there and you will stay at home and look after the kids. Give her lots of moral support throughout.

    Obviously when you have a better understanding of the situation you'll be able to reevaluate things.

    My thoughts for what they are worth. Sending you best wishes and I hope things turn out to be not too bad for you all. Best wishes, Lutz x

    Thanks! Good advice.

    Right - 2 flights booked, worked out nicely in terms of timing, 2 different one way tickets with different airlines from the same airport, about £175 altogether so not too bad given it's so close, very early Fri- very late Sun, ie 3 days of hospital visits. So she's not rushing out, got a couple of meetings arranged and her mother's in capable hands. All checked in, just need a hotel for Thursday night and a bit of packing where thankfully the Squills services are totally redundant :D

    Whew! ;)
  • Iamsohappy
    Iamsohappy Posts: 2,598 Forumite
    Ninth Anniversary
    savingbabs wrote: »
    Evening all, big day today - got my PhD!!

    Well Done :T:T:T:T:T
    Smile :) and hopefully the world will smile back

  • Hells-Angel
    Hells-Angel Posts: 32 Forumite
    This will be a head office fault, as on the SEL you can't print 6 for £3 and 10 for £4 however in my local it only said offer. This can not be changed by the store itself.
    I would suggest in future you consider your words a little as some people may take offence to the way you have written what you did.
    To solve the problem however you can go to the CSD and they will put the till in training mode and check the offer to see if 10 will work.
    andy_smith wrote: »
    Not your fault 'tbw'. They're pretty dumb at ASDA. They sometimes have offers on which they don't seem to want to let the public know about. In some stores you will see the offer posted but not in others. Sounds weird but that's the reality.
  • Mildred1970
    Mildred1970 Posts: 4,794 Forumite
    Xmas Saver!
    savingbabs wrote: »
    Evening all, big day today - got my PhD!!

    Wow well done :T:j:T

    Dr Savingbabs :)
  • pattylabelle
    pattylabelle Posts: 7,474 Forumite
    Ninth Anniversary Combo Breaker
    She has a brother. Legal advice has been sought and MIL and we have got separate independant advice.


    Great(sorted)......cos there's all sorts of things when it comes to inheritance tax that makes things tricky. Your investment in the property could end up taxed if not thought about in advance:(
    never stop doing your best because someone doesn't give you credit
  • Shortfatscotsbloke
    Shortfatscotsbloke Posts: 2,532 Forumite
    edited 13 May 2013 at 10:09PM
    Not as bad as I expected, just the crackers not as cheap as I would have liked.
    GetVoucherHover.jpgWhy £6.33?

    1 x Dr. Oetker Ristorante Speciale Pizza (330g)£2.00£1.29
    1 x Dr. Oetker Ristorante Mozzarella Pizza (335g)£2.00£1.29
    2 x Dr. Oetker Ristorante Pizza Pepperoni & Salame (32...£4.00£2.58
    1 x Birds Eye Crispy Chicken Dippers (24 per pack - 44...£3.25£1.52
    1 x Birds Eye 100% Breaded Chicken Dippers (24 per pac...£2.00£1.52
    2 x Ritz Cheese Crackers (200g)£2.58£2.38
    1 x Barratt Flumps Mallow Twists£0.10£0.10
    1 x Haribo Tangfastics Mini£0.10£0.10
    1 x ASDA Chosen by You Giant White Mice Bar (15g)£0.10N/A
  • fairclaire
    fairclaire Posts: 22,698 Forumite
    savingbabs wrote: »
    Evening all, big day today - got my PhD!!

    :beer: that's fantastic. Well done :j Why aren't you out celebrating????

    What you going to do now?
  • fairclaire
    fairclaire Posts: 22,698 Forumite
    Thanks! Good advice.

    Right - 2 flights booked, worked out nicely in terms of timing, 2 different one way tickets with different airlines from the same airport, about £175 altogether so not too bad given it's so close, very early Fri- very late Sun, ie 3 days of hospital visits. So she's not rushing out, got a couple of meetings arranged and her mother's in capable hands. All checked in, just need a hotel for Thursday night and a bit of packing where thankfully the Squills services are totally redundant :D

    Whew! ;)

    you know it makes sense squills ;)
  • David.
    David. Posts: 24,086 Forumite
    pippo wrote: »
    I know there has been a lot of talk about selling children, but this supermarket in Canada has them RTC!!

    [IMG][/img]12925174.jpg

    Pip
    X
    Could well be a little Nerf :eek:
    When The Fun Stops Stop ;)
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