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charliebenjie

hi all i am new to the forum, but i have a problem and don't know what to believe my husbands phone is new and the first bill just come in, and there are 6 calls to sex lines but my husband swears he did not make them,and nobody has had access to he phone.
now my question i don't know what to believe
thanks for reading

grumbler

I'd say believe to the bill unless your husband has 100% alibi on all 6 occasions.

A good topic for http://www.itv.com/jeremykyle/be-a-guest/. They use lie detectors there

charliebenjie

he was home alone and i was at work.I'm just finding it hard, been married 39year and never had anything like this before, just feel so upset and confused

in_the_Cotswolds

charliebenjie wrote: »

hi all i am new to the forum, but i have a problem and don't know what to believe my husbands phone is new and the first bill just come in, and there are 6 calls to sex lines but my husband swears he did not make them,and nobody has had access to he phone.
now my question i don't know what to believe
thanks for reading

Had this happen to me only on my land line some years ago. Phoned BT to complain they maintained I had made the calls.
The only problem was I was in Cyprus at the time with the Forces and my wife and young daughter certainly didn't make them.

BT grudgingly refunded the charges. So it could be a mistake.

charliebenjie

thanks for replying, it is so strange these calls was at 10 in the morning and 4 o,clock teatime. i know my old man and sex lines at that time of day i just don't believe it,thinking about the dates he was at work some of the times. i have emailed orange asking them to look into this but don't hold much hope.it is affecting our marriage at the moment because i don't know if i can believe him i am all over the place i feel so hurt over this

grumbler

charliebenjie wrote: »

...it is affecting our marriage at the moment because i don't know if i can believe him i am all over the place i feel so hurt over this

Come on...
Don't make a mountain out of a molehill. Even if he made the calls, it's just a few phonecalls, not a big deal. The majority of men are interested in !!!!!! in some degree even if they don't admit it. How a phone call is worse?
If the cost was significant it's a more important problem to think of than anything else.

macman

If your question is 'could this be a billing error?', then yes, of course it could be. Only you can weigh up the odds of that happening 6 times when you are absent.
Assuming that the phone is SIM-locked (and if not, it should be), then no-one else can have had access without knowing the PIN.
I don't think this is really a mobile phone issue; it's a relationship issue.

charliebenjie

OK just spoke to orange and they have credited the account with the cost of the calls and changed his number free of charge they said it was possibly because his number was ported over from o2

grumbler

charliebenjie wrote: »

OK just spoke to orange and they ...changed his number free of charge they said it was possibly because his number was ported over from o2

This makes sense only if the charges were for incoming premium texts, no for outgoing calls.

macman

A look in the call logs will quickly tell you if he dialled those numbers or not. Unless he's wiped the logs.
I don't know of any way that a wrongly billed premium call could then appear in the call logs?
Probably not what you want to hear, but you did ask the question.

charliebenjie

yes i did ask the question and no it is not in the call log, i don't think he knows what a call log is.this is a 60year old man that cannot even send a text.he only has a mobile for emergencies