Time to be completely honest

taxi73

Sea...I'm so sorry to hear your news..and really don't know what to say but am sending you big hugsxxx on a positive note (if I can call it that) you and OH seem to be getting on better..please don't think about your debts at the moment and take some me time for yourself...and give those other 2 beauties a kiss from me...please take care xxx..pm me if you want anything

*zippy*

I'm so sorry sea, thinking of you :grouphug:

peluja

Sea..so sorry to hear your news

Take care
Pel

plzhelpmesave!

sincere sympathies for your loss and hoping get thru this ok. x

Snaggles

Oh Sea, I am so so sorry. I just don't know what to say.

Sending you my love and best wishes,

Snaggles xxx

Lucy1982_2

Sea

That is so sad, and I am so sorry for you. But I am also pleased to see that you are trying to look at the positive side.

You'll be fine and I hope you are feeling better soon. Take care of yourself

x

yellowmonkey

So sorry to hear of your loss. Thinking of you :grouphug:

ym

hypno06

Seaxwyn wrote: »

Oh Sea, I'm so sorry to hear you lost the baby.

I'm sure it was meant on some level and that good will come out of his/her brief life. It sounds as if you and OH are communicating better so that's good for a start.

I lost a baby once and though it was terrible at the time I look back on it now as a positive experience - if that sounds heartless it's really not meant to.

Take care of yourself now, cuddle those two children, watch that new TV and let the debts take a back seat for now.

I can't think of any way better to put it than as Seaxwyn says. Sending you my love x

Sea78

Hi

Thanks all - it means a lot. I'm still not really feeling much at the mo. Just trying to take it easy, but do my normal stuff too, but then feel guilty.

So today I'm going to try to do normal stuff as the kids have picked up something is up - William just keeps hugging me - so sweet. I am so lucky that I have them, it really is helping me through. Sounds terrible and I feel guilty saying it, but it is helping the thought that we're going to try again eventually and that (a few IRL friends have said) I'm still young etc etc. Sounds a bit heartless though but I'm not really sure of what to think/feel etc.

Just read Hypno's post today that she's going to have a bit of R&R and do a few Flylady bits. I think the same is in order here I bought Harry Potter:o and it's proved to be a good distraction (not finished it yet though!).

Will go for a little walk with the kids later - need to get them out or they'll go stir crazy! Will try to do clicks etc. OH is doing a short day at work so he can help out with the witching hour - around teatime and bed time.

Going to try to catch up, but I;m sorry if I don't post on many people's threads - not really got much to offer at the mo.

DIDIKEN - your post made me smile Thank you for the support! We will battle our 'dave's' and get rid of them. Have you got a DFD at all? Look forward to hearing more from you. Just wanted to sa that I'd noticed your post - thank you.

Sea xx

hypno06

Hi Sea, first of all please don't feel guilty. Easier said than done, I know, but you truly have nothing to feel guilty of! Please remember that you are nothing other than a good Mummy xx

Enjoy the sunshine, take some time out. Recharge your batteries. The last few weeks have been draining, emotionally and physically and you have to recover from that. Don't worry about posting, just do what you feel able to do. Enjoy the day with the children, and take the positives from all of this - you are now looking to the future, and that on its own is worth oooooooodddddleeeeeeesss. (sorry, got a bit carried away there)

Hope you have a good day xx