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How to thank hospital staff?

Hi

I want to say thank you to all who were involved in looking after my dad when he was rushed to hospital recently. I want to thank everyone from the person who took the 999 call, the ambulance staff, all in A&E, theater & ICU and anyone else who did their very best to try and save him and I wondered if any hospital staff could give me any ideas on how best I could do this.

Do I send chocolates and biscuits or fruit baskets or something else? I just want them to know how much their efforts were appreciated and want t do something nice for them.

Thanks in advance for any replies, I really appreciate you taking the time to help.

Weebles wobble but they don't fall down! :j
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  • Ich_2
    Ich_2 Posts: 1,087 Forumite
    Flowers are banned in a lot of hospitals. but any of the above would work.
    I've got a few boxes of chocolates (Heros, Celebrations etc) and a card for the department that has been treating me for the last 4 weeks

    A letter to senior staff does no harm either
  • Tropez
    Tropez Posts: 3,696 Forumite
    edited 25 March 2013 at 11:13PM
    A thank you note and perhaps a donation to the relevant hospital/department?

    My partner is a former nurse and she once told me that whenever she was asked how someone could thank her she would tell them that a donation to the hospital is what she would prefer.
  • inkie
    inkie Posts: 2,609 Forumite
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    I worked as a nurse/midwife for many years (now a vicar!). Many people brought biscuits and chocolates as thank you's. These were always appreciated and never expected. A real lovely gift that we had one time was a large fruit basket. What would be a lovely thing to do would be a selection of hand creams for use by staff on the ward. All that essential handwashing can be drying on the hands and so would be a bit of a pamper for them.
  • time2deal
    time2deal Posts: 2,099 Forumite
    I recently was in hospital for cancer and the team were wonderful. I don't think I could thank them all enough, but as a token I sent this.

    http://www.theuniquegiftstore.co.uk/shop/product.php?id_product=678

    Someone had sent me one, and I had it in my hospital room to much compliments. Thankfully I've not had to go back in, but hopefully they liked it!
  • coolcait
    coolcait Posts: 4,803 Forumite
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    Lots of good ideas for gifts - which I can't really add to.

    However, I do completely agree with the suggestion that you write to senior staff/management with your praise of all the staff involved, and your thanks for all their efforts.

    It's good for management to be told how good their staff are ;).

    And people generally appreciate the fact that someone took the time to send that letter/email.

    It doesn't have to be anything long or fancy. In fact, the first few lines of your OP are a heartfelt and eloquent tribute to the efforts of all those involved, and I'm sure that those words would be appreciated and treasured by those involved.
  • Person_one
    Person_one Posts: 28,884 Forumite
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    A heartfelt card is always really nice and will often be kept for a long time and re-read.

    While chocolates are always appreciated, nurses can get chocolate fatigue a bit! A relative once brought in a load of really lovely fresh breakfast stuff (croissants, pain au chocolat, danish pastries, nice coffee etc.) and that was talked about for months!
  • meritaten
    meritaten Posts: 24,158 Forumite
    My OH was treated recently in a department of a hospital which I think is a right dump. except here they are a shining example of how a department SHOULD be run. he has to go back on Thursday for a final visit and we will be taking a large tin of Celebrations and a Thank you card (to add to the dozens on the dept notice board).
  • meritaten
    meritaten Posts: 24,158 Forumite
    Person_one wrote: »
    A heartfelt card is always really nice and will often be kept for a long time and re-read.

    While chocolates are always appreciated, nurses can get chocolate fatigue a bit! A relative once brought in a load of really lovely fresh breakfast stuff (croissants, pain au chocolat, danish pastries, nice coffee etc.) and that was talked about for months!

    That's a really nice idea Person-one! am trying to calculate how many staff now - I think it may be too many for this, but will try to think outside the box................would home made cupcakes go down well? I can do a couple of dozen before we go!
  • pc1271
    pc1271 Posts: 279 Forumite
    People are all to quick to write a letter of complaint, so it's nice to receive a thank-you letter.
  • Person_one
    Person_one Posts: 28,884 Forumite
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    meritaten wrote: »
    That's a really nice idea Person-one! am trying to calculate how many staff now - I think it may be too many for this, but will try to think outside the box................would home made cupcakes go down well? I can do a couple of dozen before we go!

    Ooh, absolutely! Great idea.
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