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Tam_Lin

studentphil wrote: »

Why do I witter, because I find the whole degree and university life impossible to cope with. It is not about a chip on my shoulder, but a reality that I find the degree impossible & that is a real thing.

It's 'real' because you didn't have the balls to do anything else with your life. You went to Uni and you're not Uni material. A problem of your own creation, and you love portraying yourself as a victim. Unfortunately if you ever get a job you'll no doubt find that impossible to cope with too. The good thing is I doubt I'll be around here to read it; I'll have moved on by then.

studentphil

Tam_Lin wrote: »

It's 'real' because you didn't have the balls to do anything else with your life. You went to Uni and you're not Uni material. A problem of your own creation, and you love portraying yourself as a victim. Unfortunately if you ever get a job you'll no doubt find that impossible to cope with too. The good thing is I doubt I'll be around here to read it; I'll have moved on by then.

You know how to encourage a person don't you?

I hate feeling so damn bum awful all the time!!!

I am not a victim but there is just some reason why I can not cope on my degree. I mean I never go out and get drunk and every night I spend at least two hours a night in bed reading and thinking and making lists for my course. Just for some reason I am not able to find success at it.
If I was always drunk then I could understand it but I never do get drunk.

crazy_guy

studentphil wrote: »

You know how to encourage a person don't you?

I hate feeling so damn bum awful all the time!!!

I am not a victim but there is just some reason why I can not cope on my degree. I mean I never go out and get drunk and every night I spend at least two hours a night in bed reading and thinking and making lists for my course. Just for some reason I am not able to find success at it.
If I was always drunk then I could understand it but I never do get drunk.

2 hours :rolleyes: Bravo!....oh hollyoaks is on

Tam_Lin

There's a major problem of assumption in your post. I'm not interested in encouraging you because I've seen that you do naff all with 'positive' posts that people make to you. I'd just like you to stop your endless whining. And I bet I'm not the only one.

studentphil

Tam_Lin wrote: »

There's a major problem of assumption in your post. I'm not interested in encouraging you because I've seen that you do naff all with 'positive' posts that people make to you. I'd just like you to stop your endless whining. And I bet I'm not the only one.

What will end my whinning when I find success and achievement again. I want that old Phil bad where I used to be able to work 5 hours a night and I used to love getting up on a morning and going out and achieving something in life everyday.

Tam_Lin

Then WORK for it and don't be such a pathetic slave to the vagaries of your emotions. Be a man.

Catseyez

studentphil wrote: »

What will end my whinning when I find success and achievement again. I want that old Phil bad where I used to be able to work 5 hours a night and I used to love getting up on a morning and going out and achieving something in life everyday.

You mean the days before you had a modem?

Tam_Lin

Cats - you've just made me laugh out loud!

studentphil

Catseyez wrote: »

You mean the days before you had a modem?

I have had a net connection for 7 years and I was normal until I went to uni three years ago.


I used to get up and go to school in sixth form days I did not even have lessons. I used to work 5 hours a night after going out to school all day. I used to love my life and I was wonderfully happy and successful and I used to help everyone and be into everything. Then came DEGREE and I have never had so many problems and found life so difficult as I have during my degree. Never to be able to get a good mark or to have a success.

I do have a really great person who can achieve and be happy somewhere, but I am so conditioned to thinking negative other these last few years.

I know it is wrong course that is not suited to me and that causes it all and that makes me so angry with myself.

Tam_Lin

So why are you still whining at this last stage? Why aren't you rejoicing that it's all going to be over in a few weeks? And you're living in cloud cuckoo land if you think it's all going to miraculously change when you leave academia and have to face the working world. You'd do far better to spend your time thinking about how you're going to tackle that than this perpetual moaning which just gets on everyone's tits.