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Oafs in the gym

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  • Jox
    Jox Posts: 1,652 Forumite
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    That's so rude, or maybe they were saying oi oi to you? You probably look sexier than you give yourself credit for.

    Yes, complain about them, they have no right to do that to anyone. The next person they do that to will probably never go to the gym again.
  • nickyhutch
    nickyhutch Posts: 7,596 Forumite
    Definitely sounds like it :D Apparently I give off "no, no, nothing to see here, just tinyshort girl working out, look away please" vibes when lifting in the corner so you might not notice me ;)

    Aren't you the lady with the spit-and-sawdust gym that I'm so jealous of?

    HBS x

    Crikey no, it's an all singing, all dancing new build (actually 4 centres across the borough that I can use) that's packed to the rafters all the time. No sawdust and DEFINITELY no spit!
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  • Aren't you the lady with the spit-and-sawdust gym that I'm so jealous of?

    HBS x

    I think that would be me :D

    JoJo, hold your head high and ignore those idiots. You've done amazingly well to lose 2 stones, who the hell are they to judge?

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  • heartbreak_star
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    Yep, it's you JaG :D I'm still jealous ;) love that picture though.

    Nicky, the posers ALWAYS seem to gravitate to the new builds *sigh*

    HBS x
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  • nickyhutch
    nickyhutch Posts: 7,596 Forumite
    I think it's cos it's relatively cheap too, and really well equipped.

    (I'm not a poser, I'm there cos I get a discount lol).
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  • Dumbe
    Dumbe Posts: 266 Forumite
    Just ignore them, if they are upsetting you op.


    Sorry but I have to ask what is being "oinked at". I took it to mean being nasty in some way based on the rest of the post but have never heard that phrase and would like to understand its meaning?
  • Gloomendoom
    Gloomendoom Posts: 16,551 Forumite
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    Dumbe wrote: »
    Just ignore them, if they are upsetting you op.


    Sorry but I have to ask what is being "oinked at". I took it to mean being nasty in some way based on the rest of the post but have never heard that phrase and would like to understand its meaning?

    Pigs make an oinking noise.

    By making oinking noises in the OP's direction, the two meatheads were implying that she had some similarity to a pig.

    Not nice.
  • Del_Astra
    Del_Astra Posts: 446 Forumite
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    I'm shocked, seriously shocked that two adults would "oink" at someone, I too was confused by what "oinking" was.

    I go to the gym, because I need too, need to shift those moobs :-) I'd suggest anyone that is overweight and attending a gym is in the right place! OP what sort of workout are you doing to shift the weight? Are you also counting calories? I've lost half a stone this year, but as I'm quitting smoking at the moment, I'm not that concerned at this stage that the weight isn't dropping off.
  • Fire_Fox
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    Sorry to hear this Jojo. If it's any consolation my (insider) experience is that most staff and many members have the greatest respect for anyone of any age shape or size who gets into the gym and grafts to their own ability, and little to no respect for anyone who poses up a storm more than they lift or wears full face make up and never breaks a sweat. ;)

    Next time please report them to a supervisor or manager immediately. That's unacceptable behaviour, is likely breaching membership terms and conditions and they should be warned.
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  • LC88
    LC88 Posts: 53 Forumite
    OP, that is awful. But fair play to you for dealing with it in such a positive way and not letting them put you off.

    I believe that regardless of shape or size most people in the gym are there because they want to improve their fitness and take control of their health. It makes no sense why anyone should mock this, better to be in the gym than sitting at home!

    I do find a small minority of selfish posers do go to the gym though and seem to be there to look down their nose/judge other people. And as for the people who drop weights loudly... dont get me started! :mad:
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