Ex moving new partner in whilst we live together

Funky_Bold_Ribena

Trigger123 wrote: »

To my shock my ex has turned around and asked if the new partner can move in with us until they can afford to save up a house deposit. I can afford to buy my ex out but she wont let me. She cant afford to buy me out at the moment so we are stuck.

'2 options luv. You can stay here alone, or use the money from me buying you out for your deposit. Your choice'.

Gordon_Hose

Funky_Bold_Ribena wrote: »

'2 options luv. You can stay here alone, or use the money from me buying you out for your deposit. Your choice'.

This, all the way!

Either that, or sell up and split the equity.

It would be a cold day in hell before I let an ex move a new partner in. She is clearly a cold hearted b*tch and you're well rid.

thorsoak

Tell her that you have no objection whatsoever ....and that you intend to move in a troublesome family who need a roof over their heads after having been evicted from their previous 10 homes!!

19lottie82

start living a nudist lifestyle whenever you are at home......

bris

Turn it into a party house, bring all the mates round to all times and make their life as uncomfortable as yours. See who cracks first. You will need to fight fire with fire or the ex and the new partner will make your life hell in that house.

thelem

It sounds to me that you've been more than reasonable, providing you've offered her a fair price for her share.

Trigger123

Thanks for the replies.

I'm a bit tied as I really want to keep the house as I've put a lot of work into it. I'm a home bird and don't want to move but she won't budge but won't buy me out either.

Think threatening court action is my only option really when I tell her no to her new partner moving in. I want to avoid that though as want to stay amicable.

I was just wanting to know if she could move the partner in against my wishes really. Ive looked all over the net to find the answer but drawing a blank. Think I will have to consult legal services.

Thanks again

19lottie82

T123, I'm a little confused as to why she won't let you buy her out, if you say things are amicable, and she wants to get together a deposit to buy a new place with her current partner?

19lottie82

bris wrote: »

Turn it into a party house, bring all the mates round to all times and make their life as uncomfortable as yours. See who cracks first. You will need to fight fire with fire or the ex and the new partner will make your life hell in that house.

or whenever her and her new OH are in your complany, ask her if she remembers various, but specific, love making sessions that the two of you previously enjoyed........................... awkward! :rotfl:

Funky_Bold_Ribena

Trigger123 wrote: »

Thanks for the replies.

I'm a bit tied as I really want to keep the house as I've put a lot of work into it. I'm a home bird and don't want to move but she won't budge but won't buy me out either.

Think threatening court action is my only option really when I tell her no to her new partner moving in. I want to avoid that though as want to stay amicable.

I was just wanting to know if she could move the partner in against my wishes really. Ive looked all over the net to find the answer but drawing a blank. Think I will have to consult legal services.

Thanks again

If she won't let you buy her out then it's stalemate. So you may as well just 'be' a cracked record. 'You could easily have a deposit when I buy you out'...ad infinitum.

I vote for being a massive PITA from now on until she finds it unbearable and just moves out.