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  • koalamummy
    koalamummy Posts: 1,577 Forumite
    My sister is a teacher and the only contact that she ever has with any parents is formally arranged through the school secretary and all meetings take place within the school. I appreciate that school procedures do vary greatly around the UK. However I am aware that teaching unions support this arrangement for the protection of all parties concerned. Please bear this in mind OP as your friendship and chats at the gate could in fact be raising eyebrows amongst their colleagues and to an extent jeopardising their career.
  • loracan1
    loracan1 Posts: 2,287 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    We don't know if it's a primary or secondary - if primary, is another 5 months be too long to wait?
  • Because we talk.I know they cannot have kids and why,where and what they studied,childhood stories,know bits about their family,favourite food and many other things from chatting at the gates

    Hmmm. This bit really doesn't ring true I'm afraid. I don't know ANY teachers who have this much time to 'talk at the gates'. Generally we are far too busy sorting out getting children through the door, catching parents we need to talk to, with parents grabbing us to have a quick chat about various issues or rushing off to meetings/after school clubs etc. I find it really hard to believe you have got to know this person at all well if this is the only contact you have with them.
  • thorsoak
    thorsoak Posts: 7,166 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Actually, the style used by the OP is very similar (I really want to say the same) as that used by an extremely saddo who posted a couple of months ago, intimating that they were in an abusive relationship/how to escape etc etc etc - does anyone else remember it (or rather them?)

    Think we have someone fishing again .........
  • emsywoo123
    emsywoo123 Posts: 5,440 Forumite
    edited 23 February 2013 at 8:34AM
    ..........
  • emsywoo123 wrote: »
    Well I don't think it's at all weird or unsuitable... maybe because I do too :rotfl::rotfl: In fact I did wonder if I had had a mental block, created an AE and written this :D:eek:

    Sensibly I know why I have this crush and sensibly I know it will stop. Probably. Or maybe not. Maybe we will end up happily ever after.............:p

    I'm not a total freak then?

    It just seems more than a crush :(
  • thorsoak wrote: »
    Actually, the style used by the OP is very similar (I really want to say the same) as that used by an extremely saddo who posted a couple of months ago, intimating that they were in an abusive relationship/how to escape etc etc etc - does anyone else remember it (or rather them?)

    Think we have someone fishing again .........

    I don't remember reading that one. Is it still around?:o
  • I'm not a total freak then?

    It just seems more than a crush :(

    Has anyone ever told you you talk to much?
  • emsywoo123
    emsywoo123 Posts: 5,440 Forumite
    edited 23 February 2013 at 8:35AM
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  • emsywoo123
    emsywoo123 Posts: 5,440 Forumite
    Has anyone ever told you you talk to much?

    Am I missing something? :o
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