Ive miscarried

TeamLowe

have you been to your EPU? Mine offered counselling which really really helped, maybe you could look into that?
Be thinking of you, i'm so sorry you feel so alone at this time x

CarliJ

Really sorry to hear that, and you wont hear anything like that from me, I totally understand. Big Hugs xxxx

threemuttleys

We only found out when we went for the scan...stupidly excited on the way there, and then they couldnt find a heartbeat, our baby was already gone :(:(

Ive to go back to the Hospital on Monday to check on "progress" Im dreading that bit. When I mc'd last year, it was awful, being poked and prodded by different people.

I HATE this and I feel so guilty....no idea why tho:(

zaksmum

So sorry three muttleys. Can you ask for some tests? When this horrible experience kept happening to a close family member, she was discovered to have a blood problem that was very easily corrected and she now has two lovely little boys.

Hope you're ok. Sending you big hugs.

Alchemilla

So sorry to hear this terrible news. X

Slinky_Malinky

I am so sorry for your sad loss. You are perfectly entitled to not answer your phone and take some time out alone so just ignore the ringing, anyone with a heart will understand.

Take care,
SM x

marleyboy

Awful Awful Awful news. I would not wish it on my worse enemies, know you have plenty of support and a huge community hug here on MSE xx

threemuttleys

Thank you all for your lovely messages.

Going to try and convince my mental toddler that its nap time already (:-) ) and try and get some sleep
#Thank you all again xx

msb5262

Take care of yourself threemuttleys - you can see from the responses here that you are not alone and that we are in sympathy with you. Very sad to hear your news.
MsB

dibuzz

I'm so sorry, it's an awful feeling. I was pretty much alone for 2 weeks after mine, my mum went away the day after and wanted to cancel but ex and his parents assured her they would look after me so she went. His parents then decided to go away themselves and ex expected me to carry on as normal including looking after our 13 month old son.
I think people often don't know what to say and don't realise that "oh well you can try again" is just wrong, I didn't want another baby, I wanted the one I could no longer have.
Sending you big hugs, it does get easier in time but you never truly get over it.